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I'm glad I don't need counseling as she so nicely told someone else. My point to all of this is, what value is added to your life by being rude and nasty to people? Does it make you feel like a queen? I don't understand the point in posting anything nasty to a question because you didn't like it. Why not keep scrolling

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No. Some people can state their opinion with out being rude & others just like to be rude & nasty. It's old.

Please show me where I was nasty and rude. I simply related a story about how I am raising my children.

In fact, show where anyone was nasty and rude OTHER than the people who are pointing out the "nasty and rude" in others.

That's usually how it goes here. The ones screaming the loudest about others are usually the ONLY ones pointing fingers and calling names. It's amusing at best.

:D

If you weren't rude why are you commenting? My response was toward one person and we have addressed the issue. Now if there is something you want to say to me specifically, feel free. Strangers on the internet can't hurt my feelings.

Uhm...because I can?

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No. Some people can state their opinion with out being rude & others just like to be rude & nasty. It's old.

Please show me where I was nasty and rude. I simply related a story about how I am raising my children.

In fact, show where anyone was nasty and rude OTHER than the people who are pointing out the "nasty and rude" in others.

That's usually how it goes here. The ones screaming the loudest about others are usually the ONLY ones pointing fingers and calling names. It's amusing at best.

:D

If you weren't rude why are you commenting? My response was toward one person and we have addressed the issue. Now if there is something you want to say to me specifically, feel free. Strangers on the internet can't hurt my feelings.

Uhm...because I can?

Well in that case go ahead and take it all personally even though it didn't apply to you. I'm done with this thread and this community. I can't be apart of something negative like this.

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@@ANewMe16 Ummm if you're going to leave can I have all the stuff you just won from this site!!! It's only fair! It can be like a "give me" account. Not even "Gofundme" just " giveme" it's much easier that way!

I kid! You guys make me laugh this morning though! So much trauma happening in the world and this is not it! Turn the news on. That will give you plenty to be upset about and fight for. This lovely lady will get her surgery one way or another. If she wants it bad enough.

PS people: No one can offend you without your permission. Keep that in mind. :)

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@@Salinagetssleeved Hey I watched your video! Nice lipstick! And all the other stuff too! Good luck with everything!

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@@Salinagetssleeved Hey I watched your video! Nice lipstick! And all the other stuff too! Good luck with everything!

thanks doll! That is so sweet of you!! I'm super excited about the channel. It's so fun to be able to put all my feeling/anxieties/excitement into something that I will be able to look back on!!!! It's awesome!!

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Well in that case go ahead and take it all personally even though it didn't apply to you. I'm done with this thread and this community. I can't be apart of something negative like this

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Well in that case go ahead and take it all personally even though it didn't apply to you. I'm done with this thread and this community. I can't be apart of something negative like this.

Nope. I took NOTHING personally. I'm just highly amused at how rude the people who scream "RUDE!!!" are. ;)

And as far as accusing people of taking things personally.... HA! What is this flounce thing people keep saying? Hmmmm....

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No. Some people can state their opinion with out being rude & others just like to be rude & nasty. It's old.

Please show me where I was nasty and rude. I simply related a story about how I am raising my children.

In fact, show where anyone was nasty and rude OTHER than the people who are pointing out the "nasty and rude" in others.

That's usually how it goes here. The ones screaming the loudest about others are usually the ONLY ones pointing fingers and calling names. It's amusing at best.

:D

If you weren't rude why are you commenting? My response was toward one person and we have addressed the issue. Now if there is something you want to say to me specifically, feel free. Strangers on the internet can't hurt my feelings.

Oh my God Lipstick Lady, I wasn't even talking get about you.

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No. Some people can state their opinion with out being rude & others just like to be rude & nasty. It's old.

Please show me where I was nasty and rude. I simply related a story about how I am raising my children.

In fact, show where anyone was nasty and rude OTHER than the people who are pointing out the "nasty and rude" in others.

That's usually how it goes here. The ones screaming the loudest about others are usually the ONLY ones pointing fingers and calling names. It's amusing at best.

:D

If you weren't rude why are you commenting? My response was toward one person and we have addressed the issue. Now if there is something you want to say to me specifically, feel free. Strangers on the internet can't hurt my feelings.

Oh my God Lipstick Lady, I wasn't even talking get about you.

My thought is this, quote the person you are talking to, or refer to them out right. If you don't have the stones to call them out, block them, ignore them or PM them. Things get real confusing on these interwebz... ;)

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I hadn't logged in for a few days...man! What the heck happened here?? I haven't seen a good flounce for months!

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Hey OP! Glad you are getting your surgery! Keep us updated!

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No. Some people can state their opinion with out being rude & others just like to be rude & nasty. It's old.

Please show me where I was nasty and rude. I simply related a story about how I am raising my children.

In fact, show where anyone was nasty and rude OTHER than the people who are pointing out the "nasty and rude" in others.

That's usually how it goes here. The ones screaming the loudest about others are usually the ONLY ones pointing fingers and calling names. It's amusing at best.

:D

If you weren't rude why are you commenting? My response was toward one person and we have addressed the issue. Now if there is something you want to say to me specifically, feel free. Strangers on the internet can't hurt my feelings.
Oh my God Lipstick Lady, I wasn't even talking get about you.

My thought is this, quote the person you are talking to, or refer to them out right. If you don't have the stones to call them out, block them, ignore them or PM them. Things get real confusing on these interwebz... ;)

I did call them outright. Sorry you missed it

I understand you were probably busy defending yourself when no one was actually talking to you.

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Oh! I forgot to say...just my opinion...so you can't hold me accountable for being rude.

Also, "this is a public forum" because I've come to learn that you're also supposed to add that, too.

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Wow this is a fun one since im not really involved. for once. lol

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