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Anything that makes willing sexual partners of any genders happier is fine by me.

Proceed. :)

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So, what is this forum?? I found you under new content, I don't go to specific forums. I just look at who started the thread, or who responded to it, or if the title interests me. I will admit to posting in the guys room. I guess being married for a million years and raising 2 boys (men) I felt entitled. That, and nothing offends this old gal. ;-)

Guilty, too. If you click on a title, scroll to the top of the page and it will tell you what forum you are in. This one is "Where Venus and Mars Collide". :D

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I see it now!! Venus & Mars collide! Now I will know what to look for. I expect this one will be a little spicy!!

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Just remember, this is not a hook-up room or a meat market. We have the singles room for that.

Can I just clarify that the singles forum is not just for hook-ups or meet-ups. It was created for both men and women to discuss dating and WLS. I don't want any misunderstanding of what the forum is for. Thanks!

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Just remember, this is not a hook-up room or a meat market. We have the singles room for that.

Can I just clarify that the singles forum is not just for hook-ups or meet-ups. It was created for both men and women to discuss dating and WLS. I don't want any misunderstanding of what the forum is for. Thanks!

Darnit!! I've been married for 20 years so I was hoping to eavesdrop on some good old fashioned hooking up. Sigh.

Thanks for clarifying!!

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@@LipstickLady Me too "hook up" room sounds exciting to read when your already married and not in a "Ashley Madison" kinda way either.

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Someone has a looking for singles in Texas thread nobody responded to..must be in the wrong place.

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We use to have some pretty steamy convo in the chat room. I miss that room. Lol. A few of us had a group called lapband nymphs..... Bunch of horny women. Man I miss that group. Lol

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Heeeeeeyyyyyyyy ! !!!! If a guy grows an inch for every 30 lbs lost, geeee, does that mean my boobs will grow a cup size for every 30 lbs I ve lost ??? Haaa !!! Wouldnt that be funny !!!????

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Heeeeeeyyyyyyyy ! !!!! If a guy grows an inch for every 30 lbs lost, geeee, does that mean my boobs will grow a cup size for every 30 lbs I ve lost ??? Haaa !!! Wouldnt that be funny !!!????

Oh hell no! I need mine to be shrinking no growing! ????

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I think the main reason the ladies and mens room are often read by other gender is because the post shows up on side bar under recent posts and trending topics. I can NOT tell the forum until I click on the post.

If ladies and mens rooms topics were removed from that sidebar I would never"accidentally" read or reply to a post in mens forum as I would not seek it out.

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I wish Alex would bring back the chat room.... OMG the words that were written in there.... Nothing was off limits. Now some of us just chat on Yahoo...

Some of the best post are when the men invade or the women invade the "special room".

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I wish Alex would bring back the chat room.... OMG the words that were written in there.... Nothing was off limits. Now some of us just chat on Yahoo...

Some of the best post are when the men invade or the women invade the "special room".

Agree. That's why we made THIS room.

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But MORE of their stuff exists with every 10 pounds lost. :D

Maybe we need a new ticker for this. :lol:

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