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I did not make that woman leave the forum. If she didn't like my posts she could have ignored or blocked them. It was solely her choice to leave the forum and she specifically did not state why she was leaving. I reject your premise and your accusations.

How do you know she has no support system whatsoever? That is an unfounded assumption on your part, so it is purely illogical to say it is my fault she has no support. If you are such a good friend of hers, surely you can email or phone her to check on her and provide support. Have you done that yet???

I don't know why you feel the need to try to bully me, but I couldn't possibly care less what you think. I do not heed or respect the opinions of a person I do not respect.

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I did not make that woman leave the forum. If she didn't like my posts she could have ignored or blocked them. It was solely her choice to leave the forum and she specifically did not state why she was leaving. I reject your premise and your accusations.

How do you know she has no support system whatsoever? That is an unfounded assumption on your part' date=' so it is purely illogical to say it is my fault she has no support. If you are such a good friend of hers, surely you can email or phone her to check on her and provide support. Have you done that yet???

I don't know why you feel the need to try to bully me, but I couldn't possibly care less what you think. I do not heed or respect the opinions of a person I do not respect.[/quote']

Proof...be gone!!! Please n thank you. You've caused enough damage and hurt enough members here. I will pray for you. You obviously need it.

(Pre op) sw 341~cw 298~gw 140

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Unfortunately, tiny now has 0 support because she left the forum because of turnthepage. How can you look at yourself in the mirror knowing that your rude unnecessary comments that YOU made to a stranger in obvious need of support, made her run away??...and now no one even knows if tiny is ok or not. That to me, is very sad....and the 1 person on this forum that is doing this to the members here, is STILL here upsetting members. Does that make you feel good turnthepage???

(Pre op) sw 341~cw 298~gw 140

Kasper you pulled in my quote that I was replying to brknhrtd8911, on November 2, 2013 - 1:51 PM, and I'm not "TurnThePage" so your apology is accepted.

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I try to be nice to everyone, but in reading post, there is a saying "people who live in glass houses should not throw stones". Yet one person is being labeled "rude" because of what they said to someone who chose to no longer be on the forum and the people who are labelling that one person, are being rude to the person they call "rude". Just can't comprehend the logic as I must be dumb. How can someone call another person rude, yet be rude themselves?

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I try to be nice to everyone' date=' but in reading post, there is a saying "people who live in glass houses should not throw stones". Yet one person is being labeled "rude" because of what they said to someone who chose to no longer be on the forum and the people who are labelling that one person, are being rude to the person they call "rude". Just can't comprehend the logic as I must be dumb. How can someone call another person rude, yet be rude themselves?[/quote']

Masterful, I believe you summed it up nicely. Be careful though, in attempting to mediate this stupidity earlier today I get my butt pounced on too.

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I try to be nice to everyone' date=' but in reading post, there is a saying "people who live in glass houses should not throw stones". Yet one person is being labeled "rude" because of what they said to someone who chose to no longer be on the forum and the people who are labelling that one person, are being rude to the person they call "rude". Just can't comprehend the logic as I must be dumb. How can someone call another person rude, yet be rude themselves?[/quote']

I'm kinda confused here. We stand up to the one and only bully on this forum (turnthepage) because not only has she been rude to us over the past few weeks, but she's been rude and hurtful to many members here...calling people Stupid, idiots, and welfare frauds...and now we are the rude "bullies"?? I don't know where you are from or what you have been taught, but most people are taught at a very young age, that if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. It's apparent that turnthepage has missed this life lesson. Im done with this. I have done nothing wrong but stand up for what's right. This is a public forum. No way should it be acceptable to put members down repeatedly that come here for support...not to be called names.

(Pre op) sw 341~cw 298~gw 140

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Kasper why don't you just click on my name and find out just how old I am. I was taught respect and "do unto others as you would do unto them". Just what did TurnThePage do to you? Don't answer it isn't necessary. I understand where you are coming from even though you might not think so.

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Hi Mami, You and I had our surgeries at about the same time. I had mine 5.16.12. I remember your encouraging, uplifting posts both pre- and post surgery. Awesome that you are 110 pounds! :) You are a great mami and don't let the haters get you down.

Marie

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OMG!!!! I'm back! I left the group to work on my life. No one will ever in a million years make me leave any group.Thankyou for the love & support of people that support me on here. I don't have new boobs.

I'm a single mother of 3 kids. I'm separated. I'm in school. My kids are the happiest kids ever.

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OMG!!!! I'm back! I left the group to work on my life. No one will ever in a million years make me leave any group.Thankyou for the love & support of people that support me on here. I don't have new boobs.

I'm a single mother of 3 kids. I'm separated. I'm in school. My kids are the happiest kids ever.

Glad you're back. Merry Christmas!

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OMG!!!! I'm back! I left the group to work on my life. No one will ever in a million years make me leave any group.Thankyou for the love & support of people that support me on here. I don't have new boobs. I'm a single mother of 3 kids. I'm separated. I'm in school. My kids are the happiest kids ever.

Mami I'm so happy you're back and things are working out well for you! Now can everyone else call a truce and let's get back to being nice to each other?

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