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I been attacking my husband everyday a few times in a role. I go out to buy or get something & I'm calling him on the phone just so we can have sex. If he's not around I have a personal"toy".. I seem not to get enough. If he's done here I go again. I can't get sex out of my mind. Is it age just turn 34 it is losing all this weight?

It amazes me to hear I, am not alone. ()=! When preping for my surgery which was June 20, 2012 literally 1 month and, 1 day prior to my 25th bday. My group listened to stories of how many individuals LOSS their sex drives, and or some yet not many had a transfer of addiction from food to promiscuity... I have been w/my fiancée almost 10 year's now, and have always had s high sex drive yet now its like 100000 times worse. .. its like I am like a savage dog at times! =× and can't get enough. There was a point I did speak to a therapist regarding this amongst other actions

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when I first came home the first 2 month I wanted a lot now im almost 5 month it has slowed down a lot

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Lol I think it's the hormones my hubby is loving all the sex crave, so we are very happy, I think with all the weight lost with the hormones we are more willing to try new things .

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I haven't had my surgery yet and I'm trying to learn as much as I can beforehand. I love this subject. I'm wondering how many of you that lost your desire for sex have gone through menopause? I'm 46 and post menopausal. I am also nervous that the excess skin is going to disgust my husband. Right now our sex life is pretty good.

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This is funny! My surgery is in 2 weeks but I ALWAYS want it now and I'm single. If it gets worse after surgery somebody's son is gonna be in big trouble!!! :lol:

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Jocie I'm going thru menopause now and I'm horny as heck lol! I lost 110 lbs and a size 12. Sadly hubby's got health problems and I don't get any which is sooooo frustrating, but sadly there's nothing I can do. We did the bunny thing for 25 yrs of 30 yrs of marriage, but I am need some badly lol!!!

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Good for you, Rock! I'm sure you are making some nice lady very happy. I hope my hubby won't mind keeping the lights off. LOL

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LOL I was the same way right after surgery , my husband and I have always had a great sex life but now its even better he is enjoying the benefits and so am I , with the weight lost I was encourage to try new things and everything has been great. I do not know if age has anything to do with it because I am 44 but I think with the weight lost gone your self esteem goes up, I know mine has.

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I actually came on here to see if this was normal! My sex drive has been thru the roof and I'm 7 weeks out. It's been crazy in the last week or so.

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