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Baker gurl: wow that's just awful. People are so freakin rude.

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The 1st negative comment I gotten. I ran into a friend & she said you lost a lot of weight right. I said yes I had WLS. She said omg! I'm so sorry this happen to you. I said what? Why are you sorry I feel great! Then she said if you feel great then I'm happy for you. Lmbo I was so confused.

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My sister, she said she was going to post it on Facebook, so everyone will know my business, I told her by all means go ahead, because you were my inspiration, to have the RNY, and believe me i'm posting that.. So I guess they will know both our business...

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Here's one for you..."I'd have that surgery but I want the satisfaction of knowing I lost the weight on my own."

Obviously this person is still overweight.

That wouldve ticked me off! Ummm hello we are losing it on our own. Its still our body, not like we switched bodies with heidi klum fir a day or something or had lipo...

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Here's one for you..."I'd have that surgery but I want the satisfaction of knowing I lost the weight on my own."

Obviously this person is still overweight.

Loveit. what do they think happened in that operating room, that they implanted a weight loss fairy and they are doing all the work???. Crazy People

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My lovely husband wondered why i got very angry with him, after returning from my morning walk. He looked at me, and said you are going to have to lose alot of weight on my legs because they are still really fat!!!

Since the op (3 months ago) i have lost about 55 pound, i walk about 2.5 miles each morning and go 3 times a week to aerobic classes. I am trying so hard, i just couldn't understand how stupid he could be. And he wonders why he doesnt get alot of sex!! Lol

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My lovely husband wondered why i got very angry with him' date=' after returning from my morning walk. He looked at me, and said you are going to have to lose alot of weight on my legs because they are still really fat!!!

Since the op (3 months ago) i have lost about 55 pound, i walk about 2.5 miles each morning and go 3 times a week to aerobic classes. I am trying so hard, i just couldn't understand how stupid he could be. And he wonders why he doesnt get alot of sex!! Lol[/quote']

Lmbo that's right no more cuca for him if he keeps it up.

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...but you're not big enough! Oh, yeah? BMI 47 is apparently twig-thin.

...but won't you have all that sagging skin? Oh, please.

...but you won't EVER be able to eat good things again! Oh, really! My sister does just fine and she's lost over 100 with vsg.

It's just a whole bunch of garbage. My most hated comment is...well, my friend's mom's brother's friend's uncle's wife HAD it and gained ALL the weight back!

Ugh.

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...but you're not big enough! Oh' date=' yeah? BMI 47 is apparently twig-thin.

...but won't you have all that sagging skin? Oh, please.

...but you won't EVER be able to eat good things again! Oh, really! My sister does just fine and she's lost over 100 with vsg.

It's just a whole bunch of garbage. My most hated comment is...well, my friend's mom's brother's friend's uncle's wife HAD it and gained ALL the weight back!

Ugh.[/quote']

Poor friends moms brother friend uncle wife lmbo In other word she should had never went under the knife. After 3 hours of surgery I'm never getting fat again.

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My lovely husband wondered why i got very angry with him' date=' after returning from my morning walk. He looked at me, and said you are going to have to lose alot of weight on my legs because they are still really fat!!!

Since the op (3 months ago) i have lost about 55 pound, i walk about 2.5 miles each morning and go 3 times a week to aerobic classes. I am trying so hard, i just couldn't understand how stupid he could be. And he wonders why he doesnt get alot of sex!! Lol[/quote']

Oh my lol!

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My uncle said, how much more weight are you going to lose? You look small now cause you use to be - and held his hand up, very far apart - "big big big big big-ole " and did a shape of my old big body" - sigh.

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I think I can handle those comments better then the one I grew up with from my grandpa who said that I would soon have to be weighed at the farmers market in a cow scale if I didn't stop gaining weight. this was when I was only 170 pounds. probably had something to do with why I kept on eating

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I think I can handle those comments better then the one I grew up with from my grandpa who said that I would soon have to be weighed at the farmers market in a cow scale if I didn't stop gaining weight. this was when I was only 170 pounds. probably had something to do with why I kept on eating

Why do people have to say such cruel things? Well you wont need to worry about that now or ever again

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