Report Your WINS ..What is your today's win??🥇

[Mspretty86 472]

@BlondePatriotInCDA Damnnnnn girlie MAJOR WIN! Love that for you 💪🏽

Edited May 25 by Mspretty86

[BlondePatriotInCDA 593]

34 minutes ago, Mspretty86 said:

@BlondePatriotInCDA Damnnnnn girlie MAJOR WIN! Love that for you 💪🏽

Thank you Ms. Pretty! I appreciate you.

[SpartanMaker 1,360]

I should have posted this last Sunday, but I ran a half marathon and broke 2 hours for the first time. I know a lot of runners train for years to complete that milestone, so I'm pretty happy with that!

[ms.sss 15,824]

a bittersweet win: i find i don't need nor rely on this forum as much as i used to.

🥹

i am more and more no longer identifying as a WLS patient nor "former obese person". i'm just me. i find im not so scared about "getting fat" again, and sort of just know in my bones that i've got this, no matter what comes my way.

confidence is honestly THE best thing to come out of all of this.

❤️

[Mspretty86 472]

@ms.sss I love that! That's awesome... yeah In other groups I'm part of people talk about not wanting to be identified as this WLS "patient" they feel that they have always been someone else ..that is not their whole being so I love that you go chick!

This f**king journey is hard as hell I commend anybody who gets through this journey successfully so if you can get through this journey. You can Get through anything that includes tackling regain if you have regain or you can do anything your mind sets out to do it's hard it requires that much discipline so if you can be disciplined in this, you could be disciplined in anything.

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[BabySpoons 632]

5 hours ago, ms.sss said:

a bittersweet win: I find I don't need nor rely on this forum as much as I used to. I am more and more no longer identifying as a WLS patient nor "former obese person".

I can totally relate to this, 2 years out from surgery. I was beginning to think I might not see my end goal weight of 150. Until a couple weeks ago. I was bouncing around 155-160 for the longest of time and was resigned to the fact that the rebound weight everyone talked about here had happened or maybe my goal was just off. I was perfectly happy to remain in the 150s, but I'll admit I'm pleasantly surprised. And fitting into a size 6. Sometimes a 4 depending on the clothing item. Dreams really do come true. LOL

This forum has been such a help to me during the whole process. I'd like to thank you all for your advice and encouragement. It was and is priceless to me. Will periodically check in and I continue to wish everyone here much success and boundless health. ❤️

[AmberFL 1,071]

My win for the week is that I’m finally getting back to the fitness level I was at before my 7-week break. I’m almost lifting as heavy as I was, my endurance is better, and overall I’m feeling really good about my progress. I’m trying not to focus too much on the number on the scale (still being mindful) but paying more attention to how my clothes fit, how I look, and how I feel health-wise.

[Dub 10,027]

A couple small wins yesterday.

Small, but I take note of them and small wins encourage the behaviors that lead to bigger wins, right ?

So...this 'un is a two parter.

Several months ago, a few weeks before I had taken action to burn off the regains and dig my way back.... I was goofing around on the web... looking through a certain company's website. They make gear that is hobby related. I happened to notice that they also had some logo T-shirts that looked cool. So I ordered two....but ordered them for two sizes smaller than I was wearing then.

They arrived and were stashed away with some other clothing, all smaller sizes, that I'd been ordering. The stash had made it's way upstairs to be put away.

Soon afterwards... I started putting in the work....burning off the regain and get in better overall health. Kitchen discipline being the first step.

Fast forward to yesterday.....laundry day at the hacienda.

Grabbed a shower and started getting dressed so I could go knock out some errands. Almost dressed but remembered my normal day off work stuff was on the drying rack. Damn.

I spied the stack of smaller sized stuff still in shopping bags....sitting there. Hmmm. Screw it...let's find out, dude...either it'll fit or it won't. Grabbed one of the new cool guy t-shirts and some new flat fronted cargo pants. Cut off tags & peeled off stickers and began to.....WTH !!! This shyt if fitting. Bamsucka. Got dressed and strutted around the room like a bantam rooster....chest poked out....big grin.

Small Win Numba One Achieved.

While running errands I wheeled into a parking space in front of one of the local gyms I'd been considering. Took my bantam rooster arse up in there and looked around. It was clean, plenty of open treadmills and recumbent bikes...just what I need for pre-habbing my knees. Gonna build up the muscle tissue before getting those suckers replaced over the next couple years.

I joined.

Small Win Numba Two Achieved.

I plan on never having to eat an elephant (although I used to look like I could)......but....but if I did....I'd eat that thang one bite at a time.

Thankfully getting healthy may prove to be easier than elephant eating. 🤣

[summerseeker 2,398]

On 5/28/2025 at 11:33 PM, Dub said:

WTH !!! This shyt if fitting. Bamsucka. Got dressed and strutted around the room like a bantam rooster....chest poked out....big grin.

I can see you, you had the biggest grin on your face. Congratulations, onwards and downwards to your next win

[FifiLux 565]

So my win yesterday was being able to comfortably fit into my new Victoria Beckham jeans, size 8UK / 4US, and eat a meal (2 mini slider burgers less the buns) without fearing I would split the zip

[NeonRaven8919 587]

Definitely a win in my eyes, or more accurately, a near win

I walk passed a charity shop every day on my way to work and they've had a dress in there that I've loved for awhile (Light grey stripes with neon yellow stripes). I never bought it because it's a size S and I'm not a size S. Still sometimes never think I could be. But still, I admired it from afar.

For months, I've seen it in there next to the neon yellow hot pants (I love neon, but I will never be a hot pants person as I don't like the wedgie feeling)

I handed in my resignation a month ago and am moving on to new neon green pastures. So I told myself, if that dress is still there on the last day of work and it's the last time I will walk by that charity shop, it must be fate.

So I bought the dress. As my mother would say "just because it goes around you, doesn't mean it fits". She was right. It doesn't fit. Yet. But the fact I can even get a size S to go around me is a victory. Something I would never have dreamed.

But it WILL fit me. Not just because I believe in fate, not just because no one else wanted this grey and neon yellow eye sore, but because I've quite literally worked my arse off.

[Dub 10,027]

4 hours ago, summerseeker said:

I can see you, you had the biggest grin on your face. Congratulations, onwards and downwards to your next win

Thank you.

Seems like there are wins occurring every single day. I am finally in a place where I can see them for what they are and appreciate them. A pile of these little wins are funny in some way, too.

Back in the timeframe surrounding my sleeve surgery the weight loss is what drove my happiness. Getting rid of the unwanted bulk was awesome and it was the spark that ignited a powderkeg of fun, adventure and a small bit of misadventure.

I had no plan or goal for what life would look like....I simply jumped onboard the train and was okay wherever it took me.

Now it is different, but I believe in a better way....perhaps.

I know what lies ahead in terms of carving off the unwanted weight. I'm familiar with trodding that ground and know where some of the pitfalls may be.

I think having my head screwed on correctly has made the daily discipline easy to achieve. The weight loss is more of a symptom of everything else falling into place. It is not its own thing, but a part of the overall improved state of mind.

Hard to verbalize, but there is a goal for daily life...and I am getting closer to being in that spot and living that daily.

I still get a kick out of hearing the scale make its new lower reports, but I don't get pissed if there isn't some big drop or even an uptick from the day before. I know this for the long haul. There will be a steady drop and there may be a few days here or there where it'll be in a holding pattern before resuming the loss train.

One aspect of life...one that will take care of itself so long as I follow through on the straightforward nutritional steps.

One thing that makes it SO freaking much easier this time around is the supplements available to us now. Essential greens in a powder, turmeric capsules, fiber-filled products, Protein products with zero sugars, Vitamins galore, etc, etc.

Life is good....and getting gooder.

[NeonRaven8919 587]

34 minutes ago, Dub said:

I still get a kick out of hearing the scale make its new lower reports, but I don't get pissed if there isn't some big drop or even an uptick from the day before. I know this for the long haul. There will be a steady drop and there may be a few days here or there where it'll be in a holding pattern before resuming the loss train.

This a great point!

This took a long for me to get to terms with. Just going up slightly while I was on the pre-op diet had me panicking that I would be refused surgery, and going slightly up or the scale not budging after surgery and I was convinced I was a failure. The scale is neither a friend, nor an enemy, but this mindset took some time for me to understand.

It is a marathon, not a sprint or *insert favourite cliche here*

[Dub 10,027]

57 minutes ago, NeonRaven8919 said:

Definitely a win in my eyes, or more accurately, a near win

I walk passed a charity shop every day on my way to work and they've had a dress in there that I've loved for awhile (Light grey stripes with neon yellow stripes). I never bought it because it's a size S and I'm not a size S. Still sometimes never think I could be. But still, I admired it from afar.

For months, I've seen it in there next to the neon yellow hot pants (I love neon, but I will never be a hot pants person as I don't like the wedgie feeling)

I handed in my resignation a month ago and am moving on to new neon green pastures. So I told myself, if that dress is still there on the last day of work and it's the last time I will walk by that charity shop, it must be fate.

So I bought the dress. As my mother would say "just because it goes around you, doesn't mean it fits". She was right. It doesn't fit. Yet. But the fact I can even get a size S to go around me is a victory. Something I would never have dreamed.

But it WILL fit me. Not just because I believe in fate, not just because no one else wanted this grey and neon yellow eye sore, but because I've quite literally worked my arse off.

Much respect for how you played that.

You'll rock that dress.

It is great to have some "goal clothes".

I have a pair of jeans that are in the closet....waiting on me to grab 'em & wear 'em out. I hung onto them as I'd bought them right after the sleeve. I never got there.....but I am confident I will this time.

[Mspretty86 472]

@NeonRaven8919 I love that for you you will definitely be able to fit in that dress soon enough show us some pictures once it does! @Dub your winning. @NeonRaven8919As far as the scale goes, I'm a year and two months postop. I've never owned a scale. I still don't own a scale. It's not good for my poor mental health and as a woman we have too many hormonal changes, bloating, cycles, menopause, perimenopause, Water retention it's just not a good indicator of your progress. Your metabolic wellness is your best indicator of the progress that you're making.

Edited May 30 by Mspretty86