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Im sorry I didnt see this til now! All the things you are feeling are so normal! We all worry that we wont stay on the wagon after, and we will all fall off at some point. the great thing is we learn to get right back on and not let guilt send us into a downward spiral. also when you do slip, its much less because we dont have room or we dump. I know you've been working hard on your preop stuff and I know you'll make your goal and get a date! Relatioships are hard, and this process puts stress on them. Joel and I seperated for half the summer as I was preparing for this. It helped us both realize how much we love and need each other. After telling him that I needed his support unconditionally and needed him to get involved and go to group and appointments he is beginning to understand the role of food as an addiction. Never being overweight, he didnt get the internal struggle we have with food. grioup is helping him get it. I hope your hubby comes around and gets positive and supportive for you. Losing weight has improved our intimate life not only because I have lost weight, but because I have gained confidence. You will too and I hope it helps your relationship. I do agree counseling would help too. Maybe go sometimes alone and sometimes together. If you were best friends before you can get back there, as long as youre both willing to try. Love you girl! See you monday!!

I am so sorry about your son! I am glad to hear you are getting back on track and getting abck to the basics. This site is a great motivator and wealth of info. Glad you found us and welcome!!!

I also would but am only 2 months out. Try posting this on a forum called thinnertimesforum.com there are lots of older post ops on that site. good luck in your education!!!

i agree! i didnt like any chewable calcium. i take 2 citrical tabs a day. they are at target or any pharmacy. $15 for 180 tabs. dont waste your $$ at GNC!

Yes ! Head hunger is what it is. When you stop and really think, am I hungry?? I always say no, just bored or wanting to eat out of habit. I FEEL satisfies 99% of the time. I'm just fighting the hand to mouth habit with Water. I'm addicted to SOBE life water. I drink 2-3 a day and I love all the favors. Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

It is hard! But hang in there. It's gets easier after day 4 if u cut them out. And post op it's way easier, no cravings anymore. Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk