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IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY...THEN DON'T SAY IT.

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dat_sweetmami    81

dat_sweetmami
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Man' date=' I wish someone would be nice enough to send me to Hell.

It's like this post:

Is there any negativity in there?

Or in the initial post this refers to?

The bottom line is just like what I told my wife on our first date:

Don't ask any question you don't want the answer to

tsk tsk...your still here ... you must have another interval.

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fyre_storm    1,412

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tsk tsk...your still here ... you must have another interval.

I don't know if your attending this to be negative or not but its coming off that way. Which is kind of making your first post hypercritical. If not once again it's about the tone.

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PdxMan    4,292

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tsk tsk...your still here ... you must have another interval.

Would you like me to leave? Do you find my honesty refreshing or threatening?

I'm sorry you edited (deleted) your last post. I was quite suprised reading it as you seemed to be going against your own request. It is difficult to practice this, isn't it?

Let's just all play nice and know that our disfunctional family is alive and well. If you don't want people's advice, don't ask the question. If you ask for people's advice, be ready for their truth, even though it may not resonate with you.

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dat_sweetmami    81

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I don't know if your attending this to be negative or not but its coming off that way. Which is kind of making your first post hypercritical. If not once again it's about the tone.

It must be the tone...lol because unless I curse you out or have an issue ...which I would gladly speak up on it to anyone...with a negative attitude!!!! then you can say its hypocritcal..Again, re read everything I've said and do an analysis if your that concern sweety

;-)

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Ms.AntiBand    2,984

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Can't have popcorn so I'll get some cottage cheese and find a comfy chair

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dat_sweetmami    81

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LISTENNNNNNNN UPPPP BECAUSE PPL ARE SO CONCERN WITH THIS FORUM. LOL !!! DON'T JUDGE NOBODY N DON'T BE RUDE..POINT PERIOD BLANK!!! ...IF YOU GOT SOMETHING TO SAY ...SAY IT. BE AN ADULT AND BE RESPECTFUL ..THIS ISN'T IN PARTICULAR ABOUT.ANYONE...IVE SEEN A LOT OF NEGATIVITY IN OTHER FORUMS TOO AND I SAY WHAT I WANT. STOOD THE NEGATIVITY AND MAKE YOUR POINT. IF ITS THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU TO SAY YOUR PIECE ...WITHOUT YOU GETTING BASHED BACK...THEN SAY IT RESPECTFULLY....CAPIIISHHHHHH ;-) YEAH, AND ALL CAPS WAS NECESSARY ...LOL! OOPS IM SORRY..OH NO..IM NOT! SMILE....WE ONLY LIVE ONCE ...

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dat_sweetmami    81

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I can't either' date=' but as Pdx predicted this thread has blown up![/quote']

and you are still interested because you're still on here...

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BigFatLoser    331

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I have not been on this forum for long and have found some really great support and ideas here. I understand about the "train wreck" and have seen some threads like this.....I would have to say my biggest frustration with the forum is that many threads get bogged down with people bantering back and forth and you have sort through all the bs to find solid answers - many times it really looks like these users should be utilitizing the chat function rather than the threads.....I am not criticizing - just observing - and I will continue to sort through threads and unsubscribe when my email gets blown up with silliness.

Afreakinmen

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fyre_storm    1,412

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LISTENNNNNNNN UPPPP BECAUSE PPL ARE SO CONCERN WITH THIS FORUM. LOL !!! DON'T JUDGE NOBODY N DON'T BE RUDE..POINT PERIOD BLANK!!! ...IF YOU GOT SOMETHING TO SAY ...SAY IT. BE AN ADULT AND BE RESPECTFUL ..THIS ISN'T IN PARTICULAR ABOUT.ANYONE...IVE SEEN A LOT OF NEGATIVITY IN OTHER FORUMS TOO AND I SAY WHAT I WANT. STOOD THE NEGATIVITY AND MAKE YOUR POINT. IF ITS THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU TO SAY YOUR PIECE ...WITHOUT YOU GETTING BASHED BACK...THEN SAY IT RESPECTFULLY....CAPIIISHHHHHH ;-) YEAH' date=' AND ALL CAPS WAS NECESSARY ...LOL! OOPS IM SORRY..OH NO..IM NOT! SMILE....WE ONLY LIVE ONCE ...[/quote']

WHICH IS HOW YOUR ACTING LIKE A CHILD WHEN PEOPLE ARE AGREEING WITH YOU TILL YOU START DISSING THEM! PLEASE KEEP ON THE MEDS!

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delta_girl    931

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Grammar, please ....

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PdxMan    4,292

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I think it's about time we heard from

, don't you?

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dat_sweetmami    81

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Would you like me to leave? Do you find my honesty refreshing or threatening?

I'm sorry you edited (deleted) your last post. I was quite suprised reading it as you seemed to be going against your own request. It is difficult to practice this' date=' isn't it?

Let's just all play nice and know that our disfunctional family is alive and well. If you don't want people's advice, don't ask the question. If you ask for people's advice, be ready for their truth, even though it may not resonate with you.[/quote']

hahaha lol oh hunny bless your heart

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