hey guys. just curious here. i am almost 4 weeks out. i've lost 25lbs preop and an additional 25lbs postop so far. my question relates to the bedroom. does anyone else having a problem with finishing prematurely?? like i mean a little too soon. faster than normal??? never ever had a problem before even at my biggest at 370lbs. and honestly before surgery i could last 30-40 minutes straight. i am so confused/worried. please help. is this normal? anyone else experience this ??

Congrats on the 50 off! Rock on.

I haven't had that experience, sorry! Actually, it's just the opposite. I have a lot more stamina, it's harder, and it's bigger. Sorry, dude...may just have been a fluke! Maybe you were just too excited about getting it! I know that feeling, believe me. Maybe try rubbing one out prior...

How many times has this happened? If it's just once or twice, I'd give it some time man, you could be stressed, rubbed something a certain way, hit a nerve, anything really. Your body is undergoing so many changes right now, rest easy bud, if it's a reoccurring problem, you may want to talk to your surgeons office or doctor about it, but if it's just a few times...I'd ride it out (literally) and see how it plays out.

Well truth be told. Ive tried it those times by myself. You know what i mean. Privately. Because I'm new out of post op i haven't tried anything yet with my wife. So i was eager to check out my new stamina and what not and i noticed i was done in a couple of minutes. Got me really worried. Tried it like 3-4 times i think. Wtf smh weight loss is great but this sucks bad!!!!

Your whole hormonal balance is thrown off for awhile post-op. There are a lot of hormones stored in fat and they are released when your body begins utilizing your fat stores for energy. I wouldn't worry about anything in this department for awhile. It would be just too dificult to pinpoint anything at this stage in the game. Too much going on with your body.

I dont know about you but I never last long when doing it to myself. I guess I know what I like!!! I would not worry about until you try it with your wife. Practice is just that. Practice. I was always more of a game player myself.

I was fairly lucky.....I never missed a beat. :D

Yeah, I would just give it time. I've heard it can mess with hormones and stuff.

Everything was usual for me but just remember practice makes perfect hah

Haven't had any issues except a pulled muscle in my side....

Did you really think none of the girls would look?

Did you really think none of the girls would look?

Your gender's curiosity knows no bounds!

Your gender's curiosity knows no bounds!

Hey- the post went 5 days before any woman commented on it. That's amazing- especially since we've all read it

Hey- the post went 5 days before any woman commented on it. That's amazing- especially since we've all read it

That wasn't so much a comment as it was an observation. Do you have any insight from the female perspective?

Original poster clearly did not ask for the female perspective.

Original poster clearly did not ask for the female perspective.

I agree. PDXman, since I don't have a penis- I don't really have an answer

Or comment. Just observations.