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I had Surgery 1/14 have lost about 20 pounds my weight before surgery was 233 ...Happy with my sleeve!!! I find myself constantly in the supermarket looking for things that I can eat that are high in Protein or Fiber. Tonight I got fish sticks put them in my toaster oven had a little tarter sauce this was my dinner...who the heck do I find in the kitchen cooking the rest of my fish sticks!?!?! My husband, mind you he has a Pasta dish with turkey meat, salad and bread sticks ....OMG!! I wanted to throw the dam fish sticks at him!!!

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LOL....Are you sure he wasn't making them for you? Or at least I hope he was smart enough to say he was making it for you :D

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lol !!!!i think that feeling is normal !!i feel like that too!lol!!! i feel like i spend forever at the grocery store and proud of the things i do find , when the rest odf the house can eat ANYTHING they want!makes u kinda want to put it in a box with a lock and key and say THIS IS MY STUFF DO NOT TOUCH.........LOL!!! i feel like i am always always trying to find something i CAN eat that i put so much effort into it that then i dont wanna eat and grab a Protein Drink ........................i believe what u are feelin is normal :) ......i was sleeved dec 8 and lost 57 lbs total

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Oh Cookie Monster (we have almost identical stats). My hubby would likely have gotten them thrown at him. ;)

My hubby ate pizza the second day after my surgery. I was so irritated, even tho I had no desire for it. Just the thought.

Grocery is odd place now. Skip most aisles

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He eats everything!!! Peanuts, Almond, fish sticks,crab cakes,Jell-O even my cottages cheese!!!! To add insult to the injury guess what he buys me for Valentines day?!? A BIG BOX OF CHOCOLATE!!!!

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Omg my partner is the same way! I have a stash of Protein Bars, Protein milk and a bunch of peanuts and Snacks and he eats them all. I went bezerke and said you can have anything you pig and you eat all my stuff?! He slept on the couch that night.... Ok only for like ten minutes till I got scared of the dark.

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Mine brought me home chocolate covered strawberries ( ok, I actually enjoyed one!) & a flipping Cheesecake!! He's fixing to wear that!!! :-(

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Omg my partner is the same way! I have a stash of Protein bars' date=' Protein milk and a bunch of peanuts and Snacks and he eats them all. I went bezerke and said you can have anything you pig and you eat all my stuff?! He slept on the couch that night.... Ok only for like ten minutes till I got scared of the dark.[/quote']

Lmbooo! This post made me smile.

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Tawnie~ I hear you girl.... My husband has always had a bowl of Cereal an hour or so before bed- every night since we have been married 11 years ago. And now-- when he goes to get it- and sits next to me on the couch and I can hear him crunching on it - I want to make him spill it on himself. Hey are you off pureed foods now? I am still on pureed.

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Maybe we should just fill the house with only foods we can eat- buy enough for everybody. That way everybody is on the new eating plan.

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Maybe we should just fill the house with only foods we can eat- buy enough for everybody. That way everybody is on the new eating plan.

Melissa that sound great! But knowing my husband he will complain about what I'm feeding him.

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Omg my partner is the same way! I have a stash of Protein bars, Protein milk and a bunch of peanuts and Snacks and he eats them all. I went bezerke and said you can have anything you pig and you eat all my stuff?! He slept on the couch that night.... Ok only for like ten minutes till I got scared of the dark. Omg hahaaaahahaaa!! I read this post to my boyfriend and we were both crackin up!!!

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oooops how did that happen!

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