I just had a break down ..it's so hard some days ..my husband feels helpless but I educated him from the beginning so he would kno what to expect and I told to never let me give up no matter if I say I regret it cause I kno things will get better

What's going on? Why is this so hard for you? Is it the food?

And you obviously educated yourself too, to know this is normal.

I know it doesn't make much easier when your going through it though... Hang in there and be good to yourself

I hope you feel better soon OP!

There are really good days and then really bad days. This is such a journey that we are all on and there's times I really want to eat and then I feel I'll. then I have guilt because I've been grazing Through out the day.

This toonshall pass! Stay strong!

I just broke down a few days ago myself, stay strong and when you make it through this you will look back and grow from this!!

And you obviously educated yourself too' date=' to know this is normal.

I know it doesn't make much easier when your going through it though... Hang in there and be good to yourself [/quote']

Thank you so much I needed that you no all that info we take in it could never prepare u for the emotional side of things and I'm great ful that I have you all to support me as well as my family

What's going on? Why is this so hard for you? Is it the food?

It's not just food it's your life that's changing in every way and its a good thing but very emotional did you not go through emotion on your journey ?

I just broke down a few days ago myself' date=' stay strong and when you make it through this you will look back and grow from this!![/quote']

It feels good not be alone just when you feeling better u have a day of emotion it really is a day by day journey

It's not just food it's your life that's changing in every way and its a good thing but very emotional did you not go through emotion on your journey ?

No, I didn't, I guess I'm just in a different place in my life than others.

Just remember this too shall pass for you, try to find something that will occupy your time. Start a new hobby to take the focus off of this for a while, sometimes that helps.

Have you thought about therapy?

No' date=' I didn't, I guess I'm just in a different place in my life than others.

Just remember this too shall pass for you, try to find something that will occupy your time. Start a new hobby to take the focus off of this for a while, sometimes that helps.[/quote']

I'm 18 days out and lucky for you to bad we can't all be on the same page !

I'm 18 days out and lucky for you to bad we can't all be on the same page !

. I'm sure the feeling will pass.

The first few weeks are hard, as you try to figure it all out. It gets better.

Hi! I just had surgery too, I'll be 4 weeks out on Monday. It still gets emotionally difficult for me as well. I get frustrated and question whether I made a good decision. Just know that ur not alone in that and it's not a crazy thought. It's good that u came on here and vented it. It's important to be honest about it, even if others don't get it or say its never happened to them. Ur post is about u and ur feelings. Keep takin it one day at a time. Good luck to you