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Im having a moment of regret

I just had a break down ..it's so hard some days ..my husband feels helpless but I educated him from the beginning so he would kno what to expect and I told to never let me give up no matter if I say I regret it cause I kno things will get better

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Im about 2 1/2 mths out and I so have had those moments where I have thought to myself Why did I do this!! But I got to say it has been good lately and I promise you when your stomach heals a little more believe me you will feel so much better!! I was on a liquid diet 6 wks after surgery and I thought I was going to go crazy!!! All the holidays and food and I had so many mixed feeling and emotions!! It's ok to vent and even sometimes break down I cant lie I've even cried a little bit!! But Im telling you it will get BETTER!!! GOOD LUCK!!!! GIRLY!!!

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Hi! I just had surgery too' date=' I'll be 4 weeks out on Monday. It still gets emotionally difficult for me as well. I get frustrated and question whether I made a good decision. Just know that ur not alone in that and it's not a crazy thought. It's good that u came on here and vented it. It's important to be honest about it, even if others don't get it or say its never happened to them. Ur post is about u and ur feelings. Keep takin it one day at a time. Good luck to you[/quote']

Thank you I needed that your appreciated for your words if encouragement

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Im about 2 1/2 mths out and I so have had those moments where I have thought to myself Why did I do this!! But I got to say it has been good lately and I promise you when your stomach heals a little more believe me you will feel so much better!! I was on a liquid diet 6 wks after surgery and I thought I was going to go crazy!!! All the holidays and food and I had so many mixed feeling and emotions!! It's ok to vent and even sometimes break down I cant lie I've even cried a little bit!! But Im telling you it will get BETTER!!! GOOD LUCK!!!! GIRLY!!!

Wow you made it cause 6week liquid diet your a trooper

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Have you thought about therapy?

It's not that serious .. But if it gets there I will take your advice ..thank you

I just had a break down ..it's so hard some days ..my husband feels helpless but I educated him from the beginning so he would kno what to expect and I told to never let me give up no matter if I say I regret it cause I kno things will get better

You are so right, it does get better. It gets better a tiny bit at a time until somewhere down the road you wake up and realize that you are doing this and that you feel good again. Hang in there.

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