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I was sleeved 1/21/13 I'm been doing good the past two day but my husband been cooking and it's really getting to me I feel so hungry rt now not getting all my fluids in really no Protein I'm haven't hard time w this as I have no desire but I'm pushing my self I had to come in are bedroom cause I started balling my husband came and hug me so tight it's so hard it's one thing to prepare yourself w info to prepare you for the surgery but nothing amounts to going through it it's kno way you could be ready for the emotional aspect of things imma continue to fight

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I'm right there with ya!! I'm a ball of emotions 3 months out!

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Awe you're doing great!

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Good u have a supportive husband.....it gets better.

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ooooh... emotional wreck... that explains me lately... I get so angry... with everything! I've only lost a few lbs in the scheme of things but who knew that fat was a factor when it comes to hormones and emotions? I wish someone had warned me...

I pray we make it through this stage soon...

Peace

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I'm right there with ya!! I'm a ball of emotions 3 months out!

oh NO, I Am 2 weeks out and been very emotional, I was hoping it would be ending soon, but 3 months and still??? I cry at least 3 or 4 times a day. I have not been hungery, it is hard to even get down sips of my shakes, but I am MIssing food, and the Social Aspect of it....Saturday NIght and no beer or food, ugh.....

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Yes he's very supportive..it's been hard today well not most of the day I lost 16 pounds since surgery that makes it worth it thank you everyone I needed that

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and Husband is now making homeade frenchfries grilled pork chops and drinking beer, ugh, it is a Hard NIGHT.

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oh NO' date=' I Am 2 weeks out and been very emotional, I was hoping it would be ending soon, but 3 months and still??? I cry at least 3 or 4 times a day. I have not been hungery, it is hard to even get down sips of my shakes, but I am MIssing food, and the Social Aspect of it....Saturday NIght and no beer or food, ugh.....[/quote']

Me to like I was a big salad and meat eater and I miss meat like ground beef

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I was sleeved 1/21/13 I'm been doing good the past two day but my husband been cooking and it's really getting to me I feel so hungry rt now not getting all my fluids in really no Protein I'm haven't hard time w this as I have no desire but I'm pushing my self I had to come in are bedroom cause I started balling my husband came and hug me so tight it's so hard it's one thing to prepare yourself w info to prepare you for the surgery but nothing amounts to going through it it's kno way you could be ready for the emotional aspect of things imma continue to fight

Hang in there. You can do it. I got sleeved 1 wk before Thanksgiving 2011 and it was tough. Watching everybody eat Mamas cooking was brutal. I got through it and so will you. You will look back on this post and laugh sooner than you think.

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I was sleeved on Dec. 17 and I didn't follow the post op diet. I wish I did. My weight loss has been slow.. I can eat pretty much anything, but I stay away from carbs. I had a death in my family shortly after my surgery, not to mention Christmas and new years. I have only lost 12 lbs post op. I need to smarten up.

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I was sleeved Nov 30th. I have been extremely moody the last few weeks. It has to be hormones. I am so irritable and mean.. I know my family is having a tough time dealing with me. I'm down about 35 pounds. I really hope this is temporary. I'm glad to read others experiences, helps me feel a little less crazy :)

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I feel very depressed and cry a lot too! I did some research and it's called post surgical depression. A lot of people have this after surgery kinda like when you get post pardum and/or that's your reaction to the anestesia. That's what I've researched and my depression is actually just as bad as my post pardum. Good luck to you and pray that it gets better. I do things to distract myself that usually works.

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I was also sleeved on Monday. I had a morning of a few tears- I think it's fairly typical. Hang in there! I am looking forward to this journey with you and the others. All Best!

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Im at 1 month out and also mind myself crying at least once a day. . Nice to know im not alone.

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