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Personal preferences. I have found that shaving with a good conditioner works well. Use an alcohol rub down to fight bacteria that builds in shower stalls also helps. Burns momentarily. Then put on a good moisturizer after. Helps to keep the bumps at bay

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I like to trim. I find that waxing and shaving cause too many ingrown hairs. Perhaps when I lose some inner thigh fat, I'll be able to shave or wax without trouble

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I personally like It clean shaven but manscaped is ok too.

But with both having the naughty bits clean shaven gives it more of a heighten pleasure

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This feed has made my morning!! I love all the responses!

Just to chime in... Short or shaven... Long and combed its all personal preference. For the modern gal I would go with short, groomed or shaven... For a more mature gal...more natural but maintained and clean! Good luck!! ????

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hair tends to hold odor. I don't necessarily prefer shaven but trimmed short is nice. It's just a hygiene thing for me

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In my culture, it's a must ! No hair= no sex. The last time I shaved, my bf told me he is not into molestation, now imagine me going without sex until I can get some fine hair on that thing. It's wild and clean and I am getting laiddddd! Sorry for the TMI

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In my culture' date=' it's a must ! No hair= no sex. The last time I shaved, my bf told me he is not into molestation, now imagine me going without sex until I can get some fine hair on that thing. It's wild and clean and I am getting laiddddd! Sorry for the TMI[/quote']

LMAO!!!

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Putting anything sharp in that area is scary when it comes to men, keeping the area clean works for me.

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I have been very curious as to the cultural aspects of this too. What culture prefers natural?

In my youth, we had razors and waxing (we had the technology!!!) but I never heard of going smooth down there until I was in my 30s. So I think something changed in the USA where people didnt shave to it is practically expected - for women at least.

In my culture' date=' it's a must ! No hair= no sex. The last time I shaved, my bf told me he is not into molestation, now imagine me going without sex until I can get some fine hair on that thing. It's wild and clean and I am getting laiddddd! Sorry for the TMI[/quote']

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I only knew about shaving down there when I come to the US. In my country only the prostitutes shave and we can guess why ( with all the traffic) but when I got here I started doing it, end up with bumps, cuts, a mess. I dated an Indian and he was not into shaving at all so I got lucky , now back to my culture, no shaving at all. He even wants the armpits so I draw the line, these gotta go but if I need something special like a car, a vaca paid for, hello armpits hair, check in my hands!!!! Now you go back to my country, shaving is a trends for some.

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I only knew about shaving down there when I come to the US. In my country only the prostitutes shave and we can guess why ( with all the traffic) but when I got here I started doing it' date=' end up with bumps, cuts, a mess. I dated an Indian and he was not into shaving at all so I got lucky , now back to my culture, no shaving at all. He even wants the armpits so I draw the line, these gotta go but if I need something special like a car, a vaca paid for, hello armpits hair, check in my hands!!!! Now you go back to my country, shaving is a trends for some.[/quote']

You seriously crack me up. Both of your posts had me laughing so hard!!

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I was sleeved on Election Day at 322 lbs. Just weighed in at 276. I've rediscovered the wonderful world of S E X after many years of just "going through the motions". My how things have changed! It was brought to my attention that it is preferred by most women to have a 'clean' shaven man. Really? Why? I just don't get it. Unless there's a true purpose behind doing it, I just can't see myself doing that.

hahaha wellllll... some men shave for appearances but something to consider is that sometimes pubes trap... smells...? and if your lady is offering.... oral favors.....? It can be nice to not have all that in your face and up your nose.

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