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My boyfriend and I are very sexually active and well oral sex is a part of life so I'm going to be brave and ask this question.

This is a 2-part question. The first is, how would my stomach react to swallowing? Would I be full, would I get sick? The second part is since it's acidic, how long do you have to wait to do that?

Sorry for the inappropriate question but I kinda need to know what to expect.

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No problem, the amount is so small I doubt it would have any effect, to play it safe wait a few weeks before resuming relations then have at it.

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:P I am sooooo glad you asked this question!

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Haha, I know my boyfriend brought it up and we were joking at first but then I figured I'd better ask just to make sure that I don't hurt myself or throw up on him.

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wow, would not have even thought to ask this but im so glad you did. Lol. and now we know thanks to rootman. glad to know ahead of time. ;)

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2 weeks before I felt like trying it & I was fine. No stomach problems or any other problems. :wub:

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well ya know, all this talk about barely being able to take a sip of Water immediately post surgery made me start wondering ;) but it sounds like once the tummy swelling goes down a little bit, it's all good. So maybe no need to refrain completely, but refrain from....ahem...swallowing....for a period of time :wub:

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Blech. ???? Good thing my husband doesn't read this site......cause Blech just Blech. Ever since surgery the SMELL turns my stomach. And the consistency.....Just BLECH that's all I have to say lol

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Blech. dde16 Good thing my husband doesn't read this site......cause Blech just Blech. Ever since surgery the SMELL turns my stomach. And the consistency.....Just BLECH that's all I have to say lol

dde16 was :-/ symbol lol

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dde16 was :-/ symbol lol

Oh no, I hope it doesn't get that way for me. I really have no problem with it and enjoy making my boyfriend happy so I think we'll both be sad if it grosses me out after surgery.

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Well, some tastes actually change and now I can't stomach some stuff I see on TV and I gag constantly at different things. I would just say be careful because gagging/throwing up is not fun even one month post op and it hurts like hell sometimes. Baby steps is my advice!!!

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Oh no' date=' I hope it doesn't get that way for me. I really have no problem with it and enjoy making my boyfriend happy so I think we'll both be sad if it grosses me out after surgery.[/quote']

When your 50 pounds lighter and can stand on your head he will get over it if you can "swallow"

Haha :-D

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When your 50 pounds lighter and can stand on your head he will get over it if you can "swallow"

Haha :-D

CAN'T

Stupid phone tonight

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When your 50 pounds lighter and can stand on your head he will get over it if you can "swallow"

Haha :-D

Haha

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Lol, my boyfriend is spoiled. I already have a pretty darn high flexibility level and my rule is I'm willing to try (most) anything once. I cheered and did gymnastics my entire life well until I was too heavy to do it, I fold all the way in half and can comfortably sit in the middle splits and can easily tuck my feet behind my head. I'm not as flexible nor as balanced as I used to be but I'm not bad for being heavy. That's one thing I've been working with my personal trainer to get back.

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