Ok so I just got asked out by a 27 yr old "kid" and I say kid because I'm 42 and my oldest is 23.... But my god he is so flipping hot...he thought I was a lot young then I am and when I told him my age he didn't care...so should I or shouldn't I ...can't ask my friends because they are so ...well their b*****s help!!

Very cool that you spoke to your kids about it.

Delta girl...yep their pretty awesome girls....if they where a lot younger I probably wouldn't have...lol honestly even if they where bother against it and I want to ..I still would just did it out of respect for them..lok

Life is short. Go out with him!! Have fun! Be fierce!

Thanks Divine...I will and keep you all posted

Get your freak on:) Just don't let your son find out, that wouldn't be good. Boys protect their moms! But still get your freak on, because you should have lots of energy with all the weight loss, so I know you can hang with him.Lol

KRB....I have girls think god...but I do have two younger make cousins who think they are my dads so o know when they find out its not gonna be pretty...and no freaking...its just a dinner date...

I am gonna have to say don't do it... I am 27, my dad, 45, just started dating a 30 year old and it pisses me off more then anything in the world! The woman in me is saying "You go girl" but knowing how your kids would feel I would say "don't do it"

Go for it! Life is short. Why not be happy? I strongly believe at this point it is all about us; we have come to far. Moms have needs too ya know.

As long as ur daughter isn't crushin on him I dont think it should b a problem!

Well my daughters have not met him and at this point probably won't..and its just a date..no expectations..he is a really nice guy. I've honestly have had more meaningful conversations with him then any 40 something I know..and there isn't a ex with baby momma drama...Hell that's rare!! So I'm gonna go out have a good time if I'm lucky get my Stella on and have an amazing time..

As far as my girls I've been a single parent for a long time with focus on them all about them...I'm 42 and look like I'm 30 and having a flopping ball ...no plans to get married so I'm safe...that's for the comments...I appreciate all of you and I have considered every side..but I'm gonna be selfish

Get your cougar on lmao !!! Go for it make it a movie as well

I'm 37 & my bf is 31. I say go for it!!! We have been together for almost 2 1/2 yrs...good luck & have fun!!!

Artsong....yeah don't think the movie is a great idea...let me lose some weight and I will get on on that...LOL kidding...

Thanks littlebits I am ...so exciting the date isn't until next week I had plans already this weekend so no updates until then unless something changes..

OMG! sorry about that. I thought you had boys, well I hope you do go out and have a great time:)

KRB its fine...I plan on going and having the best time...he's so sweet makes me laugh and we can talk about anything for hours...not looking for serious so if nothing else I have a new friend