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DIrtyGirl is like Tough Mudder for women to raise awareness for breast cancer. In my area it is 11/27 so I will be abe to cross that off my list very soon!

Dirty girl in San Jose in October, baby! It will be my first time doing anything with obstacles. I'm a little hesitant, but heck I won't know if I can do something unless I try. Good luck with ur event in November!

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1) skinny sex.

2) run a 5k.

3) wear a bikini

4) keep up with my 15 month old daughter

5) be a skinn bride, wedding is scheduled for nov. 2013

6) have my man pick me up and carry me.

7) sky dive.

8) amusement parks

9) fit better in the seas a Fenway.

10) did I mention skinny sex?

Woo hoo! I was just sleeved 2 days ago :)

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1. CLOTHES!!! I love nice things' date=' and look foward to buying some beautiful things without hiking down to the basement in the PLUS section!

2. Have a huge party celebrating my new body.

3. Heels. High heels without killing my knees or my feet.

4. Crossing my legs. Comfortably.

5. Did I say CLOTHES??!!![/quote']

I love high heels too!

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You all have inspired me to add a bucket-list of my own so here it goes...

  1. Fly anywhere and be able to buckle my seat belt without an extension
  2. Go on another cruise....this time fit and feeling great about myself
  3. Complete a half marathon running instead of walking
  4. Train and compete in an Ironman Triathlon
  5. Get a tattoo
  6. Zip line
  7. Fit on the rides at amusement parks
  8. Play on the floor with my nieces
  9. Date again
  10. Have sex again
  11. Feel confident without letting anything hold me back
  12. Travel
  13. Horseback riding (I’ve never ridden a horse)
  14. Shop for clothes in the normal section
  15. High Heels….as many as I want!
  16. Ultimate dream is to go to Ireland and Italy….I will one day!

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1. Never shop in Lane Bryant again.

2. Buy a very sexy slinky beautiful dress from one of those high end stores.

3. Have my one year surgery anniversary/birthday party in a fabulos city like Vegas or NYC.

4. Walk/run in a marathon!

5. Celebrate with a glass of champagne the day I get into any outfit that is not a plus size.

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Great question! Things like this keep me motivated!

1) Do the Color Run

2) Do the Tough Mudder

3) Wear Shorts -- I have NEVER EVER worn shorts. EVER - not even as a kid. My mum didn't like that my thighs touched at the top!

4) Be able to endure the physical strain of volunteering in El Salvador this Summer!

5) Disappear for week into the woods of NorCal and not die from exhaustion of lugging my self around!

I have tons more, I just can't seem to think of them!

I have NEVER EVER worn shorts either. Not even as a kid. How sad it that?

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Keda, you know Danm well your soon to be skinny ass wont be parading in no nude beach lol

(she could at Hedo....so I've been told!)

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1. Playing Tennis again. Learn to play golf

2. Clothes clothes clothes. I've always teased my husband that it's a good thing I'm not thin because I'd been on Oprah confessing my shopping/clothes addiction. I'd love to be able to wear cute Maxi dresses...and actually look cute in it!

3. Go to Europe and be able to do all the walking that is necessary without getting completely exhausted.

4. Maybe take up horseback riding again. I had horses all through my childhood and teenage years and my dream is to one day live in a place where I could keep a couple of horses.

I'm still thinking of other things... I'll get back to you. There are probably hundreds of things!!!!

Here are some more ....

  • Go back to Hawaii, back Kauai and Maui ....and instead of just walking around the secluded hidden beaches than we found, actually play IN the surf and crashing waves....in a bathing suit instead of jeans and shirt.

  • Actually hook back up with childhood and school/college friends who have contacted/found me on Facebook. I'm sure they think I'm a b***h or aloof... the truth is I don't want them to see me. So so sad how this blubber ruins lives...

Keda, you know Danm well your soon to be skinny ass wont be parading in no nude beach lol

I wish I could like this like 20x. SO FUNNY!! :)

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1. Run a 5k

2. Wear a two piece before the age of 40

3. Have a baby with my husband

4. Get on an airplane and have extra room in my seat belt

5. Go on vacation and not be ashamed to participate in excursions

6. Have nice arms and shoulders

7. Wear a very form fitting and sexy black dress

8. Wear sexy shoes with out my damn dogs barking (feet)

9. Shop, shop & shop some more

10. Be healthy and fit. Maybe even teach a spin class. I love spinning!

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1) skinny sex.

2) run a 5k.

3) wear a bikini

4) keep up with my 15 month old daughter

5) be a skinn bride' date=' wedding is scheduled for nov. 2013

6) have my man pick me up and carry me.

7) sky dive.

8) amusement parks

9) fit better in the seas a Fenway.

10) did I mention skinny sex?

Woo hoo! I was just sleeved 2 days ago <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />[/quote']

Congrats on your sleeve! Definitely 1, 2 and 10 are on my list too!

1) ditto

2) ditto ... Instead of walking

3) go hiking again in Colorado, Shenandoah National Park and Smoky Mountsins National Park with my family

4) learn to scuba dive

5) horseback riding with my son

6) zip lining (under the weight limit but was afraid I would get stuck)

7) take the kids back to Disney, Universal Studios or Lego Land and walk, walk, walk and ride all the rides.

8) go on a cruise and feel comfortable

9) run on the beach carefree

10) travel to Iceland to see the aurora borealis

11) travel to Ireland and walk the countryside

12) travel to Italy and ride on a scooter

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Congrats on your sleeve! Definitely 1, 2 and 10 are on my list too!

1) ditto

2) ditto ... Instead of walking

3) go hiking again in Colorado, Shenandoah National Park and Smoky Mountsins National Park with my family

4) learn to scuba dive

5) horseback riding with my son

6) zip lining (under the weight limit but was afraid I would get stuck)

7) take the kids back to Disney, Universal Studios or Lego Land and walk, walk, walk and ride all the rides.

8) go on a cruise and feel comfortable

9) run on the beach carefree

10) travel to Iceland to see the aurora borealis

11) travel to Ireland and walk the countryside

12) travel to Italy and ride on a scooter

sounds fun!!! i'd love to go to iceland & see that, too! :D

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10) travel to Iceland to see the aurora borealis

11) travel to Ireland and walk the countryside

I completely forgot about your number 10! That's a dream of mine too :) and I wouldn't say no to 11 either

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1. Complete a 5k and 10k

2. Graduate from college

3. Travel to Spain

4. Wear a two piece

5. Get braces

6. Feel completely comfortable in my skin

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1. Obtain and maintain a healthy weight

2. Have a baby!

3. Travel. Perhaps before #2

4. Wear high heels without feeling like my ankles are going to collapse

5. Get a tattoo. A quarter to half sleeve.

6. Start my own business.

7. Complete a 26.2 marathon

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1. Be able to keep up with my three year old and 9 month old without getting exhausted

2. Attend my husband's residency graduation (total 6 year surgical residency) next year in a rockin' dress

3. Have less foot and back pain

4. Enjoy our yearly trips to Thailand to visit family and not be obsessing at how I almost weigh as much as three small Thai girls! Also, to not feel so squished in my plane seat cause that's a long plane ride

5. Have my husband be as attracted to me as he used to be (he's loved me no matter what, though)

6. Enjoy all the beautiful beaches we vacation at without covering everything up

7. Get outside more - it's So-Cal for goodness sakes!

8. Raise my children without all the junk around I used to eat. I don't want to set them up to be obese too!

9. Travel, travel, travel! So many places to go, there's no time to be fat.

10. Shop, shop, shop! I used to love shopping for clothes and will again!

11. Wear my beautiful wedding ring - currently can't - sausage fingers : )

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