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Kat I am so sorry you're going through this. I always feel so bad for anyone who ends up with complications, since I had such an easy time. It seems to me, everyone should.

There is a whole forum on complications where I am sure would find a lot of people who had a really rough start. You mentioned you wish there were others who would come forward.

I'm praying for you every day that you heal as soon as possible so you can start enjoying your new life.

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Kat I am so sorry you're going through this. I always feel so bad for anyone who ends up with complications, since I had such an easy time. It seems to me, everyone should.

There is a whole forum on complications where I am sure would find a lot of people who had a really rough start. You mentioned you wish there were others who would come forward.

I'm praying for you every day that you heal as soon as possible so you can start enjoying your new life.

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Kat1 i found a complications forum that you might like to check out...(hope this works)

http://www.verticalsleevetalk.com/forum/48-gastric-sleeve-surgery-vsg-complications-support-group/

If it doesn't ...i just Google "vertical sleeve gastric surgery complications"...

hope this helps (((hugs)))

sandy

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Kat have you written or contacted the Dr. That did the surgery, to let him know what you have to go thru now, maybe there can be some compensation, for you. He should know how the care after has affected you. You have the proof to send him from your Dr now. Think of you every day so sorry u have to go thru this,,

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Hi canadianprairirgirl

Yes I have contacted him and sent pictures of the infection gross. I have not heard a word back. I am now in God's hands and pray to lead me out of this. Thanks and please stay in touch.

Kat

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Sending healing prayers your way, my friend .... I am very proud of your attitude and strength....

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Hi !! I'm 55 and I've got 2 weeks to go until I get my surgery. I just started my pre-op diet today. I'm excited about making this decision to get my weight under control, but at the same time, scared! I think if I can get through these first couple of days on this crazy diet, I'll be okay. I'm very glad I found this forum so there's some place to discuss my feelings with people who understand what I'm going through. Congratulations to all of you who have already been through the surgery and doing so well on your weight loss. You're all truly an inspiration to those of us still waiting.

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Hello Everyone :-) I'm 8 days from surgery, had my pre op visit with my dr this morning withy dr and I'm down 8 pounds from being on my full liquid diet that im on till surgery day ^_^ it's truly amazing to watch my body transform even thru what has been a VERY HARSH liquid diet prescribed by my dr. I don't crave food, what has been harsh is my body 'detoxin'g from the years of bad dieting that I admittedly put it thru. The detox symptoms are FINALLY starting to ease up a lot, and I feel SO good today! One of the keys to me is remembering to take your Vitamins, getting in the required Proteins, & drinking plenty of Water.

Good luck to everyone!

Vikki H

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Oh, forgot my age, I'm 50 ^_*

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Welcome Vikki and best wishes sent your way. The liquid and Protein is especially important after the surgery. I am 3 weeks post op and finding it very difficult to get in my protein and fluids in. Can't wait to hear how you do.

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I just turned 54 last week, my surgery is on 8/02. I cannot wait to have the surgery done. Hoping to feel better (and younger) as I lose the weight :)

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Thanks New_Hope :-) I'm wondering how I will be able to get it in myself post op. if I might ask, what was your experience from surgery date to now, 3 weeks post op as far as how you felt right after surgery, when you were discharged, and now? How's your energy? How was the pain levels? As far as being satiated, is that immediate?

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Vhoke1...welcome to the 50's group. I'm also a newbie to the group although I was sleeved. 4/6/12. For me, the surgery went well, some discomfort but no real pain. I was up walking hours after surgery, using the bathroom, making phone calls, watching tv...I had a morphine pump for pain but didn't really need it only in the middle of the night to sleep. Got home the day after surgery. Drank my Isopure, it wasn't the best flavor, but I knew I needed protein....also had beef and chicken broth and iced green tea, popsicles. Almost 11 weeks later, I know positively this was the best decision for me.

I hope it all goes well for you too!

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Yes I'm in a stall but I am going back to basics no carbs, plenty of Protein and lots of Water. It's so easy to relax and not eat the right things but if you just look at what you are eating you will figure it out. Get back on track and the weight loss will start again. Good Luck to all having surgery soon!

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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