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I have had the same symtoms....LOL i've lost 74 lbs from my highest weight. A friend said I was a mere shadow of myself, I liked it. Got about 30 more lbs to goal. Can't wait things have slowed down but should be there by Christmas.

I was taking antidepresants as well before and wanted to stop.....not a good idea... go back to them until you have got thru the mind hunger.... I was a basket case.... maybe take a smaller dose but this is a hard journey ... we need all the help we can get.

I'm at the exact place you are and my weight is going in the same direction. It has slowed but this morning I was 197.4 slow and steady. I plan on plastics next year. Tummy Tuck and breast augmentation. My bat wing arms will have to wait unless I get a real good deal.But I am so happy with the way I look and my husband can't keep his hands off me. WooWoo!!!

I was taking antidepresants as well before and wanted to stop.....not a good idea... go back to them until you have got thru the mind hunger.... I was a basket case.... maybe take a smaller dose but this is a hard journey ... we need all the help we can get.

I was taking antidepresants as well before and wanted to stop.....not a good idea... go back to them until you have got thru the mind hunger.... I was a basket case.... maybe take a smaller dose but this is a hard journey ... we need all the help we can get.

I had surgery on Feb. 27, 2012 I have now lost 65 lbs.I am now in onderland!! It's been a roller coaster ride a lot of the time but I am so glad that I took this journey. I feel so much better about myself, my self esteem is higher and I can look in the mirror without feeling discussed. I am really hoping that my daughter can see my success and do this for herself.
I know that there are skeptics out there that think this is not a good thing to but they have not lived in my shoes to see the looks on peoples faces, to hear the silent remarks, to sit in a chair gentlely and hope it holds you. I knew that it was time for me to take control of my destiny......And I did, now I can look in a mirror, sit in any chair, and I feel great. There are no more stares and I feel like I am normal. My husband has been so supportive and he is my soul mate for life. I am so excited about my new look and my new life. I can't remember the last time that I felt this way. My daughter is 25 and my son is 24 and I don't think they even remember me being this size ever in their life. I wish I could have done this 20 years ago.
So good Luck to everyone and remember on this forum we have your back!!!!!

In all honesty, I don't think the surgery itself does anything to relationships. If a relationship ends in light of surgery, there were problems long before that. I think a couple of things happen. I think a lot of people are already in unhealthy relationships, but they stay because they have such low self worth that they think it is the best they can do. After surgery, we start to gain more confidence and feel better about ourselves. In turn, people end of leaving their significant other because they realize they are worth so much more.
In your case, I think your husband is just using it as an excuse. If he truly loved and respected you, he would have been there for you instead of fooling around on you. I agree that counseling is a good route, but staying together just for your daughter's sake is never a good way to go. How often do we hear people saying they stayed together for the children, when, in reality, it was the worst thing for them.
My husband has been nothing but supportive and my biggest cheerleader. He loved me at my heaviest and he loves me now. Best of luck with everything and do some deep soul searching to figure out what is best for everyone, including yourself!

I was sleeved on Feb 27 and have lost 50 lbs have had several stalls be it catches up with a vengence just be patience we are all on our own journey together every ones body reacts differently be patient it will come soon.

Some one posted a meat ball receipe and i tried it. It was great.
1 lbs hamburger meat
spices garlic, onion powder, salt, pepper, basil
mozz cheese
split in half, and quarters and 1/8th s
take each piece and roll, flaten, put one piece of cheese in middle cover and roll
I browned in pan and then finished in oven at 300 for 20 minutes.
They were great.
My husband said you didn't put any bread in it?
NO
It can't be good,
Then he tried them ...... Hey they are pretty good.
I put some ragu sauce on them (2Tbl spoons) and some parm cheese. I can only eat 2 but they really satisfy and craving.

I'll need to have surgery but I knew that going in.... My apron was already a problem as was my breast. Now I see my arms will probably need some work. But I feel so much better It will be worth it. Don't worry so much you will be better for it.

I had the patch and phinagin and I was still sick but that being said..... I am always sick after surgery... for at least 24-48 hours... but after that i was good no pain.

I was so glad when I went shopping and realized than I could buy clothes without a W behind the number....... and I went down in bra size to 38 DD from 42 DD and now I love going shopping jeans on clearance 13.00 and 7.00 at walmart....shirts are XL not 2x or even 1x ,..... I'm loving this new body.

just hang in there ..... I understand your flusrtration..... it seemed like every time i got close there was one more thing I had to do.... finally got there and now 3 months post op and 50 lbs later ... its definantly worth it.

Hello, I'm 2.5months out and glad I did it lost 50 lbs. Dr says I'm right on track may reach my goal by the end of the year. Keep checking in It helps to chat with others for support.

Just a quick note. Lost 48 lbs and loving it. I've gone shopping and love buying things that aren't followed by W's.
I've had some burping issues so not only taking Pecid ac but Tums, has helped a lot. So glad I had the surgery it is making my life so much better. Will start working out tomorrow at the gym. Yes I've have been procrastinating with this but it's time to get serious. I would love to be at goal by Christmas or at least close. 55 more lbs to go. Could be possible if I really work out like I should. Wishing to all success!

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

WOW congratulations!!!! I've just ungraduated from womens sizes no more w's for me. Only 8 weeks out hope to be at goal by Christmas.

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

Just wanted to post something positive. I'm feeling good lost 40 lbs. Started a membership at the gym can't wait to get focused on losing more weight. I've go to focus on my core. As I was shopping last week I found out that I don't have to wear women's sizes any more, no more w's for me. I can't believe it. I can finally see a difference and it feels great. Lots more hard work ahead but it is going to be worth it I'm on my way.

You are not the only one that has second thoughts "What have I done?" I had that for several weeks. But now that I see the results I am very glad It did it. Friends are saying how young I look now, I'm 51 so that always lifts my spirits. Keep bloging it helps to have other support you. We know how you feel, You are not alone.

On a daily basis I wear 3 major things under my regular clothes.

First I put on a back smoother bra the one I love is Lane Bryant's they are buy 2 get 2 free right now...hop on that deal!!!
http://www.lanebryan...36851/index.pro

2nd I wear Spanx Slimplicity Open-Bust Mid-Thigh Bodysuit
http://www.spanx.com...rentPage=family

This is so worth the price but hand wash them and they will last you
only draw back is having to take shirts off in order to poo but these have a gusset and you can tinkle in them and no you don't really pee on them but it is something you have to get use to it's kinda yuck at first but now I love the gusset.

3rd I wear Spanx
On Top and In Control Essential 3/4 Sleeve Bateau
http://www.spanx.com...rentPage=family

These give the look of having slender arms. Even in 103 degree weather I wear them and let me tell you, you sweat in these the same as if you did not have them on. The only difference is that they absorb the sweat rather than having your clothes get wet with sweat. LOVE LOVE LOVE these attached is a photo of me without them and with them, you'll be sold on these too




Here i'm wearing it with a sleeveless halter dress


here i'm wearing the spanx on top and in control 3/4 sleeve by itself with a skirt and a belt, looks like a dress right?


hope this all helps!!
Lots of insurance companies do cover plastics after weight loss surgery. They must be medically necessary so have your pcp write a referral to a surgeon, Have your pcp document any issues related to the loose skin...rashes (keep receipts for creams too) or neck and back pain, etc. photos of the rashes are very helpful in getting approvals. Do not refer to it as plastics or cosmetic surgery, it is body contouring after massive weight loss.
I went to a plastic surgeon Thursday and now waiting for pre-authorization from my insurance co for plastics. Passing along the cpt codes... you can call your ins co and ask if the codes are covered...if you ask about the procedures the operators always say no cause they don't know any better. Mastoplexy (breast lift) "cpt code 19316", Brachioplasty (arm lift) "cpt code 15836", Thigh lift "cpt code 15823", Panniculectomy (tummy tuck w/no muscle reconstruction) "cpt code 15830".
Again don't call there and ask "is plastic surgery covered" the operators are not the ones who know...they simply are call center operators that can relay info from your file or their computer and can change pcp, address, etc info in your account. They are not experts they use a intranet to search for the answers to your questions. A middle man so to speak. They do not make the decisions they can pretty much only change your pcp or give you info based on what is in your file. Pretty much all you do is call get a rep and say "i am interested in finding out if some procedures are covered, i have the CPT codes" They will be more than happy to give you the answers because you have done half the work by having the CPT codes ready for them. Let me know how it goes. Be sure to ask the % covered some are 80/20 mine is 100% with a $250 co pay after my high deductible is met which it is my daughters are having their tonsils removed this year.
I am pursuing brachioplasty and mastoplexy and my surgeon is going to zig zag the scar in my armpit so he can pull the bra back skin into it and make it one long scar from my inner elbow into my armpit and down under my breast and up to center so it's back breast and arm all at one time. One procedure one long scar on either side which i am fine with. better than 3 different procedures.