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What's your status?  

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  1. 1. What's your status?

    • happily single
      13
    • single, but keeping my eyes open
      34
    • in a long term relationship (not married)
      19
    • engaged
      9
    • married
      170
    • separated
      2
    • divorced
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I'm divorced but now in a long term relationship 10 years now and we've been engaged for 4 years and have a date set for 7/7/07.

I don't know how to vote

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I am single and have been for a couple of years. I am getting banded tomorrow and really looking forward to regaining my confidence back and self-esteem that disappeared with my weight gain. I really miss romance and having someone to share those special moments with.

Tricia, your wedding photo is beautiful!!!!

Fiona:clap2:

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I am SO HAPPILY married...will be 2 years tomorrow!! I claim the best husband ever!! :) He is truly a gift from God!!!

Melody

Banded 3/20/06 -29lbs

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I am married almost two years, this is my third marriage.....:)

Hmmmm, this is the last...he is the best.:)

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No I claim the best husband ever -lol. Going on 26 years and getting better. This wonderful man has never said a word about my weight. Just loves me all the same I am doing this for myself first and then for him. He has never seen me small so look oot

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There was a choice of Happily Single, What happened to Happily MARRIED! I have the best guy..... I have found my soulmate in my second husband and we have been married for 13 years.

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Engaged to be married 9/9/06.

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VERRRRRY happily married!!!!!! Five years, 5 months and 4 days!! (but who's counting!!).

My best friend, my soulmate; how lucky can a girl get??!

:)

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I vote for "Happily Married"!! I've been married to my DH for almost 7 yrs (will be 7 in July). He is the best thing, along with my children, that has ever come into my life!! This is the first marriage for both of us. We had a simple wedding with just immediate family. I don't have words to tell you how wonderful this man is. He is a gift from God. Thanks for letting me share!!

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I've been with the love of my life now for almost 5 years. It's amazing how fast time flies when you find your best friend and the person you want to spend forever with. :)

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Married over 8 years. We had a picturesque civil ceremony on the edge of a cliff in Red Rock Canyon, just before sunset. My main pic server is a little dismantled right now so I only have one tiny thumbnail right now:

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