Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

Sorry about the double post. I am not sure how that happened. One post like that is enough!

Edited February 6, 200917 yr by Oregondaisy
double post

Go for it. Just make sure you're ready for the any answer you might get.:bananalama:

No, I'm too chicken. I want someone else to ask!

So for those of you who have had orgasms from anal, was it from the clitoris being stimulated? If that is the case, then it makes sense to me.

in my case, yes there was clitoris stimulation. but the orgasm is so much different and so intense. so i think its a combination of both. even my best "normal" orgasm was nothing like it.

No, I'm too chicken. I want someone else to ask!

ok, i will post it. but first i need some input about what we are asking. if they enjoy any rear play on themselves? or why they like anal?

Ha Ha! Now we'll have all the girls in the men's room looking for their answers. I am not sure if the girls go in there regularly. We only seem to have a few guys drop in our room now and then.

ok, i will post it. but first i need some input about what we are asking. if they enjoy any rear play on themselves? or why they like anal?

I think it should be a poll to ask if they like rear play on themselves. I don't think there will be many men having anal sex unless they are gay. But I've heard of guys liking their girlfriends/wives to play with them back there.

I think it should be a poll to ask if they like rear play on themselves. I don't think there will be many men having anal sex unless they are gay. But I've heard of guys liking their girlfriends/wives to play with them back there.

omg, i laughed so hard when i read what you wrote and then read what i wrote! i didnt mean if they liked anal on themselves, i meant more like, why they like to have anal (give anal???) to their wife/girlfriend. like, what is different? just the tightness, etc...

so i will go ahead and ask them. i have never posted a poll before but will give it a shot.

I just wonder if anyone will answer!

I will go and look!

Okay, so you didn't ask if they enjoy anal with wife/gf, what is it about it that they like. I would like to know if it is that it's tighter, or is it that they just like variety? I sure don't want to start another poll in there, but the one that's going can have more categories.

Edited February 7, 200917 yr by Oregondaisy

So for those of you who have had orgasms from anal, was it from clitoril stimulation? IF that is the case, then it makes sense to me. IT doesn't make sense to me that you can have one just from anal with nothing else being stimulated.

I love anal, I've always loved it. I have harder Orgasms from it, sometimes I use clitoril stimulation and sometimes I don't. Either times I have a BIG O.

Now on the other hand my hubs doesn't like anal play on himself, he says it hurts to bad.

Lisa

So where do you think the O is coming from if you're not stimulating the clitoris? I really want to understand this for some reason, even though I would never try it. I am way too scared that it would be painful.

Well, i'm new to the topic in question...........hi. lol. My husband and I have known eachother since we were 15. We tried this (meaning he tried it during a doggy style session without my permission) when we were like 17/18 and he didn't have a clue as to what he was doing and lets just say it ended with me screaming something about a broom up his ass and me crying and I left. Fastforward about 8yrs........now married. We tried it again, (this time I knew it was coming, lol) and it felt a little odd but after trying a couple more times I liked it more and more..............i've only ever done it with him, and he's only ever done it with me. We enjoy it on occassion, it's not something we do all the time and it's a great alternative when i'm on my period..........:tt2: a little TMI but it's great when I "sit" on him and have a silver bullet in front, amazing :tt2:

So again, there is clitoral stimulation going on. What I want to know is how is it possible to have an O without clitoral stimulation?

it all depends on how people get their orgasms...........some people only have clitoral and some are able to have ones from their G-spot. I have never had a Gspot orgasm...........my husband has tried feverishly to find it but to no avail, lol. It's ok with me though............

I can't explain how I have without clitoral stimulation, because vaginally, I do need clitoral stimulation. However, I was just thinking, maybe it's like a mental thing, similar to a wet dream or something. I mean when men do that they are not receiving any physical stimulation. I know women who have had orgasms in their sleep as well. So maybe it is such an arousing session that you don't need the physical stimulation...just a thought.