Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

K...so here's my two cents worth.....

It CAN be very enjoyable and Yes you CAN have amazing orgasms ( literally soak the bed)....but first and formost it's a mind thing...if you are constantly thinging how gross and disgusting it is or how much it's going to hurt then it probably will....

My hubby and I were high school sweethearts and he's wanted to do it since we were dating....I tried it a few times way back when, but had no desire....thought it was disgusting....and didn't enjoy it one bit....I guess as I have gotten older I've become more open minded and willing to try kinky things....

You have to have a partner that listens to you...slow and easy...and if it's not working for you then hit the shower and go back to what you know....

I don't know the "How" of "how is this pleasureable"......but I can tell you that if you are open minded about it and have someone that cares about you and not just getting off then you can it can be very pleasureable

It's not something the wife and I are into, but I had one ex that was HEAVILY into anal....like it was a fetish with her, or something (she said it felt more intimate)....and one ex that (when she found out I had some experience with anal with the 1st ex) wanted to try it because she was curious. For the second ex, it wasn't great, but it wasn't horrible....we only did it a couple of times that way.

Honestly, as a dude, I much prefer the vaginal sensation. Anal is a little TOO tight, and you have to be ever mindful of the need to re-lube......Too much thinking for me.

Sorry if TMI.

From what I have read, since the G spot is behind the pubic bone, from the right angle, it can be reached this way. It doesn't make any sense to me at all, how you can orgasm this way, but enough people have said they not only can, but have had fabulous orgasms that way. I've read this on other message boards and some women will say the orgasms are much better this way. It's very confusing to me.

I admit I like it. Its a great feeling and even better is a toy in one hole and him in another. Its a new way to spice up the bedroom. We dont do it everytime, its like a special even thing. There is times where I am NOT in the mood for it and I just say the classic 'not to night dear' line and he's cool with it.

The anus is filled with nerve endings and if done right, anal sex can be very enjoyable for both men and women.

Some women find anal sex is easier to handle after they have already had an orgasm and are more relaxed :thumbup: There are some rules to doing it right, but most of it boils down to a patient partner, working your way up in size using fingers or toys, and lots and lots of lube.

Are you sure the jar of lube was on your girlfriends side and not her male partners' side, lol? Strap on dildo toys are some of the most purchased sex toys among hetero couples:lol:

Are you sure the jar of lube was on your girlfriends side and not her male partners' side, lol? Strap on dildo toys are some of the most purchased sex toys among hetero couples:lol:

EWW! :thumbup: If he asks me to strap one on, I am running to the lawyer's office.:smile:

Edited January 21, 200917 yr by *slim*

Lol, omg assault with a deadly strap on!

I agree with slim. That's just nasty!

Ummmmmm, yeah......Where I live, there is a label for married men that enjoy being anally penetrated: Gay.

You know, I am not sure which side of the bed is his or hers.

He is a very macho guy and I seriously doubt it was used on him. I would actually call him homophobic.

We are really good friends and when I first got together with my bf, she suggested some toys I should consider purchasing. She brought out her container of toys and showed me different vibes and what not. I have house sat at her house before too and I have slept in their bed. That toy container is right next to the bed. It's like a big kettle with no lid not a toy box. I've never seen a strap on in there, and I somehow I don't think she would hide it when she knows i am house sitting if she doesn't bother to hide the container. She usually shows me whatever she gets when she gets something new and wants to show it off. She has those parties where people can purchase those toys too.

Ummmmmm, yeah......Where I live, there is a label for married men that enjoy being anally penetrated: Gay.

I was shocked.. SHOCKED.. to find out recently, my group of married women (my age) that I hang out with, all of them EXCEPT ME do anal stimulation on their husbands. I know men's prostate can be stimulated that way and it's supposedly fantastic, but if I go near my husband's pooper, he better be like dying from a bull impailing him or something similar.

I don't consider myself prude, but that's one of those things.. if I go there, I can never UNgo there, so it'd probably ruin our sex life. :scared2:

I was shocked.. SHOCKED.. to find out recently, my group of married women (my age) that I hang out with, all of them EXCEPT ME do anal stimulation on their husbands. I know men's prostate can be stimulated that way and it's supposedly fantastic, but if I go near my husband's pooper, he better be like dying from a bull impailing him or something similar.

I don't consider myself prude, but that's one of those things.. if I go there, I can never UNgo there, so it'd probably ruin our sex life. :scared2:

Sex life??? It would ruin our marriage (not that it would take much:wink:)!

Are you freaking crazy? There is no way I would do it. I tried with DH ONCE. that was enough. It was so painful I couldn't breathe. It hurt so bad I was literally blinded by pain. I almost passed out. Literally. I can't even fathom ANYONE doing this voluntarily. I'd rather give birth than to try doing that again. Now every once in a while DH will get carried away and "lost", and I'll have to say "Ooopsie.... wrong hole....try again." He's good about it, but he's asked a few times since. I just can't handle it. Matter of fact, the little porn movies we watch have a lot of that in it. Some gals even go at it with TWO guys at the same time!!!!! One in each oriface. Boggles the mind!!! It absolutely fascinates me. They MUST be heavily drugged.

Yes, I've seen the movies with the girl and 2 guys. I do not understand that at all.

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