Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

this is my new fav thread ....just get some babyoil and go for it

Bottom line is that anal stimulation can be very, immensely pleasurable for both women and men.

In my opinion gayness has absolutely nothing to do with it. The male p spot (prostate) can be stimulated through anal play and many men will report having orgasms unlike anything else on this world if done correctly.

In fact, I have known many men who secretly enjoy anal play. There is actually a trend in very successfull high powered men loving anal play.

Put me in a room with a bunch of doctor, lawyers, ceo's, etc and I bet I could find many of them who are into anal.

Edited January 28, 200917 yr by cattoy71

Put me in a room with a bunch of doctor, lawyers, ceo's, etc and I bet I could find many of them who are into anal.

That'd be easy....just look for the dudes with the sore butts.

I was kinda joking about the "gay" comment, but kinda not.

That'd be easy....just look for the dudes with the sore butts.

I was kinda joking about the "gay" comment, but kinda not.

Being a sex educator I get the "gay" comment A LOT when it comes to men and anal stimulation. As a matter of fact, I know several gay men who actually don't care to be anally stimulated at all.

Some people are just much more comfortable exploring that particular aspect of their sexuality. In my opinion it doesn't make it wrong, perverted or depraved.

Edited January 28, 200917 yr by cattoy71

Hey, maybe Plain should start a thread in the Men's Room

Why do men have anal sex!

Hey, maybe Plain should start a thread in the Men's Room

Why do men have anal sex!

Uh, I don't think that would go over so well.....

"Hey Guys - a sex educator told me that a lot of rich and powerful heterosexual men like to be anally penetrated by their wives, so what the hell are we waiting for? Yeeeee- Hawwwwww"

I think you should post it and report back to us!

:Banane56:HAHAHA:bananadoggywow:

Only tried it a few times when seriously drunk and always had regrets the next day.

I am one who does enjoy it, if everything is right (relaxed, in the mood, no digestive issues, etc).

In fact, I have had orgasms from anal, but i've also had orgasms from giving oral, without receiving any genital stimulation myself. It's not that I orgasm at the drop of a hat (or pants), I think it just depends on how aroused I am at the moment.

I don't believe men who enjoy anal stimulation suggests any type of homosexual interest. In fact, I feel those that are completely against it are a bit homophobic and possibly not comfortable with their own sexuality. (good thing hubby doesn't read this, as his rear is completely off limits)

I really do not see how it's possible to have an orgasm from no stimulation in the genital area. I am not saying it's not possible, but I don't understand how it is. I always thought at least the clitoris had to have stimulation or touching.

I've heard that sexual arousal and the culminating orgasm is very closely tied to the emotional and intellectual response we feel towards the other partner and that this is espcially true for women.

I can see how someone can be turned on enough without ANY physical stimulation to ograsm. I've come pretty damn close myself.

I have heard of women having orgasms just from their breasts being felt.

I have heard of women having orgasms just from their breasts being felt.

wouldn't that be nice!?! LOL :thumbup:

Uh, I don't think that would go over so well.....

"Hey Guys - a sex educator told me that a lot of rich and powerful heterosexual men like to be anally penetrated by their wives, so what the hell are we waiting for? Yeeeee- Hawwwwww"

Wow...I'd LOVE to read that thread.

It's in this very same thread!