Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

No pun intended, right Glouc?

this 'plain' guy is such a witty one!

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just a simple illustration.. i like picture books!

:cursing:

Yes, Plain is definitely our resident comic:laugh::cursing:

It would probably be annoying if I weren't so dang lovable!!

not in the least bit annoying. It's nice to have a guy's opinion!

Maybe we could use software to have a 'virtual' toy party online...a webcam to show off the toys, special teleconference logins (with passwords) sent to invited guests, and invoices sent via Paypal for secure payment...

Just my techie brain working...

LOL...I think my DH would want in on that one!

this 'plain' guy is such a witty one!

He's so witty....oh so witty....

Sorry...Sound of Music flashback...Plain in a white dress, dancing around a gazebo.

Or was it the naughty schoolgirl uniform?

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just a simple illustration.. i like picture books!

I just realized what the graphic showed! OMG - that is so funny! :laugh:

I just read this whole thread/ Very entertaining I have to admit. Where were all you adventurous women when I was single 25 years ago!

This is my first time on this website let alone this thread, but I had to give my two cents...

Anal can be great if you have a ton of lube and remember to add some periodically....lol

I dont think im out of the ordinary...ok, ok maybe I am kinkier than most .... LOL

:tongue_smilie:the say to try everything atleast ones,so i did and enjoyed it.

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

Also if anyone knows how to talk her into another chic that would be FANTASTIC lol.

I really can't say, as nobody as ever asked me about it. I have been in several long term relationships as well as married twice.

I never even thought about it until I saw that tube of lube that started this whole thread. I am so glad my bf has never approached that subject too, I must add.

Even though some women on this thread have reported that it can be amazing, I am with your wife on this one.

It sounds painful and no fun to me!

I think alot of it has to do with my wife being a nurse/ germaphobe. She has friends that swear by it and have even tried to talk her into it for me but with no such luck

I really can't say, as nobody as ever asked me about it. I have been in several long term relationships as well as married twice.

I never even thought about it until I saw that tube of lube that started this whole thread. I am so glad my bf has never approached that subject too, I must add.

Even though some women on this thread have reported that it can be amazing, I am with your wife on this one.

It sounds painful and no fun to me!

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

My hubby had some magazines that he shared with me that talked about it, and he asked me if I would be willing to try it. We were in an adventurous mood, and gave it a shot. It took several "sessions" for both of us to get comfortable, mostly because he was letting me set the pace.

*****TMI Alert*****

Start with asking her if she would let you explore the area with a finger - go easy, slow and let HER set the pace. Don't just launch into it, go into the session thinking about making her as hot and therefore relaxed as possible. Once she's comfortable with your little finger, for instance, go to a slightly larger finger and work up to your thumb. There are also "toys" made especially for that area...check xandria.com for ideas.

If she's comfortable with that, then it's a matter of time and patience. Don't rush it - and definately don't push it, if you know what I mean. It's as much a mental transition as a physical one...good luck!