Hi everyone,

Just thought I'd put my services out there for anyone who may have questions.

I live in the San Francisco bay area and have worked as a Sex Educator for over 6 years! I'd post the company I work through, but my post will get deleted again, lol.

Hit me up if you ever want to chat or send me a private message if there is something you want to ask but aren't comfortable putting it in this kick - ass thread.

Thanks and a big congrats to everyone who has made the decision to become a bandster:thumbup:

I know this sounds crazy, but I have squirted just from a cliteral orgasm. Not really squirt, but it is a very heavy stream. I do it all the time.

Yeah it just has to be a strong orgasm that you let yourself go during...it doesn't have to be brought on by gspotting

I posted this under the rabbit thread too. Adam and eve have a 1/3 off sale right now. Seems like a good deal to me.

Hah, we are all going to be addicted to our toys before long!!!

Too late for me...like I said me and my hubby have a trunk filled with goodies lol :smile2:

Which one do you like the best to use with your husband? I have a very hard time having an orgasm. I really don't like oral sex and everyone tells me that's the best way to have one. I have had other partners, and it's never really done anything for me. I am looking for a toy we can use that might help me have one with my husband.

Is it possible to make a woman squirt? or is this a myth and I should stop trying........

It is possible and the only reason I'm answering this is because I've done it.. It's not really squirting like across the room or what you see in porn. I "gush" more then squirt.:thumbup: It usually only happens from really good clitoral stimulation!

Which one do you like the best to use with your husband? I have a very hard time having an orgasm. I really don't like oral sex and everyone tells me that's the best way to have one. I have had other partners, and it's never really done anything for me. I am looking for a toy we can use that might help me have one with my husband.

There are so many toys out there, it would be good to know which one is a good one.

Edited December 17, 200817 yr by Oregondaisy

They love rings should have a pretty strong vibration...if you don't want to use something either pleasure yourself or have your lover do it while you're having sex...try different positions...sometimes it's easier for me to orgasm in certain positions. Relax and remember to breth. When you breath it allows your blood to flow better into your pubic area and stuff so that you can reach you boiling point quicker then you would if you hold your breath. I like it when my husband makes me orgasim before sex (either with oral sex or just touching/rubbing) and then as soon as I orgasm he gets in and we get going. It allows me to maintain my orgasm and have multiple ones...good luck

Sex after the band.... I haven't been banded yet but my surgeon plans to put the port up almost on the bra line, is this going to be an issue for breast play? Does it bother any or you or your partners?

Oral - we're supposed to avoid vomitting with the band, if you gang from giving oral can you cause slippage?

Any of your experiences would be great - has the band affected your sex life at all?

I have NEVER vomited durring or after oral sex...so that isn't a concern for me... lol sex is fine for me and my hubby no problems and my port is lower than that...

My port is right at my bra line and it hasn't caused me any problems.

ok question lol my boyfriend can usually last a long time in bed but if I move a certain he goes instantly...he said it feels like i'm ribbed on the inside and it happens everytime....I know its a truly awesome thing haha but he said he's never felt that before in another girl...does that sound weird or do i just have a magic va jay jay haha

and no we don't use condoms so that's not it haha

ok question lol my boyfriend can usually last a long time in bed but if I move a certain he goes instantly...he said it feels like i'm ribbed on the inside and it happens everytime....I know its a truly awesome thing haha but he said he's never felt that before in another girl...does that sound weird or do i just have a magic va jay jay haha

Magic va jay jay here too. It's like that with my husband and was like that with exes as well.