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Hey! It looks like we have a lot in common. I have yet to get banded but that day is pretty close! Hopefully you can give me some good advice in the future! I look forward to chatting! My name is Jamie by the way...

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Hello, I am 32 and single with no children. I just received my approval and am awaiting the call from my surgeon for my surgery date. I am excited, but admit that it has been an adjustment. Many people that I have told are supportive, however I have encountered many that are not, including some of the medical professionals I see. All in all I am hyped about my fresh start. Looking forward to chatting with you.

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We"ll do great, don't listen to any negative people and try to surround yourself with positive support. I love my band and am excited to lose weight. I'm down 22 in 2 months.

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We"ll do great, don't listen to any negative people and try to surround yourself with positive support. I love my band and am excited to lose weight. I'm down 22 in 2 months.

Thanks for the encouragement. I got my surgery date, Jan. 29th!

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hi...i'm 30...single...no kids...i'm just finishing up all my dr visits and tests...waiting for some of my test results before submitting to the insurance co...:wink:...

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hi Lisa,

I'm single, 33 and have yet to have kids. I was banded on 11/26/08. I'm still trying to figure it all out.

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Hi all

I'm Natalie, 35, single with no kids. I'm British - living in Surrey (just outside London). I was banded on 21st Jan and all is going well so far. :(

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Hi all

I'm Jennifer, 37 and with no kids. I'm in Houston and spend most of my time at work, working in the yard and with my animals (dogs & cats). I really dont have the desire to get married or have kids - yet - and I dont know if I ever will. Life is going great right now and I have a fantastic, supportive family, great friends and the perfect job.

I was banded on 1/22 and Im not having any complications or pain. I've really changed my eating habits and now Im exercising too. I know this was the perfect choice for me and Im glad I did it!

Nice to meet everyone here! :wink:

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Hey,

It's nice that there's a group like this. I'm 32 with nokids an I live in South Florida. I was banded a last week on 3/18/09

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Not that I don't love my parent people out there---I really do--I think being a parent alone shows great character and admirable strength--I'm just hoping to find some buddies around my age that I can share some single, no children having lap band experiences with...If you are out there, please reply, I would love to hear from you! Let me introduce myself--my name is Lisa, Latina,California, teacher, single, great friends and family, love life and enchiladas...a little too much of the latter, which is how I ended up here on this lovely supportive website. Everyone is so wonderful in this place--informative, friendly, caring...I don't know if it's because of all the pain meds all post op patients are on, but I don't care, I appreciate you all. My surgery is Nov. 18th and I'm already digging out my slutty clothes from my slimmer days--it is truly an exciting time for me. If you are interested in being a best bud, let me know!

Hey Lisa,

I am 31, single, no kids, and I feel the same way about looking for single no kids friends. Lol I love my friends with kids and love kids and want them soon, but I understand completly.

I just got banded 02/24/09 and have lost 10 lb so far, I wish I would have lost more. It's been difficult journey to get here and I'm trying to be patient with it. I have not had my fill yet, so maybe after that I will see a difference. What do you think?:tt1:

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