Need some advice

[Denasiagray 18]

Hello everyone haven’t been on here in a min , I need some advice ! Well I’m 8 months in post surgery I had my surgery May 1st 2018 and some things happened had to move out of state. I kind of hit rock bottom due to certain circumstances and I need some advice on how can I get back on track I’m having a really hard time !

[Jean9 57]

Hello everyone haven’t been on here in a min , I need some advice ! Well I’m 8 months in post surgery I had my surgery May 1st 2018 and some things happened had to move out of state. I kind of hit rock bottom due to certain circumstances and I need some advice on how can I get back on track I’m having a really hard time !

Congrats on having the surgery and also for asking for help! That's the 1st step with anything!!! You want to start back up and that's huge! I'm just a couple weeks out of surgery so I'm no expert but I do try to find positivity with most things. It's been rough for me too. I lost my mom on dec 20th and had my surgery on the 26th. So yea..I havent been top motivated to do anything! What is helping me get through each day is the fact that I have each day to get better. It's one day at a time! Start slow getting as much Protein as you can. Try to eliminate the carbs and go from there. This isn't a sprint! It's a life long marathon that we can get through. We had the surgery so we could better ourselves. So that's what we need to do. I'm here if you need someone to chat with

Jeannine

[GreenTealael 24,857]

Hi, first... sorry ❤

Second be honest about what is the issue so you can move forward.

Next , move forward. Anyway you can.

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[Orchids&Dragons 9,046]

9 minutes ago, Denasiagray said:

Hello everyone haven’t been on here in a min , I need some advice ! Well I’m 8 months in post surgery I had my surgery May 1st 2018 and some things happened had to move out of state. I kind of hit rock bottom due to certain circumstances and I need some advice on how can I get back on track I’m having a really hard time !

Have you connected with a surgeon in your new state for continuing followup visits? The will see patients on whom they didn't operate. Also, look for support groups in your new area. They are usually open to everyone, no matter where you had surgery. Good luck!

[Denasiagray 18]

Thank you & I’m so sorry for your lost ! & your right I just need to take it one day at a time and just put myself back on track. Mainly stay positive

[Denasiagray 18]

Thank you so much

[GermanShepherdMama 145]

What specifically are you having problems with? That'd help us be better able to give you some advice.

[Denasiagray 18]

Getting back on track

[Denasiagray 18]

It’s like my body being stubborn

[domi 237]

I was exactly this way at 8 months. I pulled out all of my nutrition notes and acted like I was prepping for surgery. I did Protein Shakes and fluids for 1 week and then started back to eating small meals again choosing Protein first and no bread. This helped reset my mind again. This is a journey, not a sprint. WE will fall down. Just pick yourself up and try, try again. You can do this!! Remember you are worth it!!