Sex. Seriously how long after surgery should I wait?

[BadWolf523 196]

Sex was never a problem for me. I’m just wondering how long did you guys wait to start having sex again. I’m 3 days out, probably to soon...

[ScoutCR 126]

My Dr said ok to go at 4 weeks!

[Sosewsue61 3,185]

8- days Pffft! 4 weeks! I would never be able to wait 4 weeks. Just sayin'

How sore are your incisions - abdomen? I would go by that. No gymnastics and no crazy positions.

I suggest side-by-side or some other 'not much full frontal' contact position. You can always abandon the attempt ya know and go for a 'different' creative finish.

[Bryn910 519]

6 weeks

[sillykitty 10,705]

4 days

[Frmamomzeyez 76]

Wait?? Why would anyone wait! ☺️ J/K I say once the pain stops the fun starts. I have two children both born by cesarean and boy did I not wait 6 weeks. Bad bad me 😂

[Frustr8 7,886]

Didn't keep your little choo choo in the roundhouse,did you? Let's break into a chorus of These rails are made for riding! More Power to You and Darling Daddy!🚝

[BadWolf523 196]

Thanks for the ideas. There is no way I’m waiting 4 weeks. Honestly my soreness just feels like I did an intense an workout.

[Ylime 453]

I'm sure the recommendation to wait is just like exercise, to allow a full recovery and prevent a hernia.

However, I imagine the time period in the real world is different for everyone.

Being overweight has definitely impacted my libido so 4 weeks is probably a shorter period than what our current rotation is. lol Hoping this surgery helps me get back on track.

[BadWolf523 196]

1 hour ago, Ylime said:

I'm sure the recommendation to wait is just like exercise, to allow a full recovery and prevent a hernia.

However, I imagine the time period in the real world is different for everyone.

Being overweight has definitely impacted my libido so 4 weeks is probably a shorter period than what our current rotation is. lol Hoping this surgery helps me get back on track.

Girl I was doing it everyday. Multiple times a day. Now he’s all we can wait until you heal trying to be supportive and I’m just like... I mean I guess

[Ylime 453]

16 minutes ago, BadWolf523 said:

Girl I was doing it everyday. Multiple times a day. Now he’s all we can wait until you heal trying to be supportive and I’m just like... I mean I guess