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TeTe2

By TeTe2, in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story

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TeTe2    0

TeTe2
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I have completed all my pre-certification requirements for Lap Band surgery. By 10/30 I will have all my final clearances from the specialists, then I call to schedule my surgery date. As that date quickly approches I am starting to get nervous. I'm sure that's natural. These boards & my local support groups are great. I'm having the most difficulty changing my mind set. I'm trying to get away from my previous "diet mentality" to "a lifestyle change" way of thinking. I try to stay focus on the positives to come & not all the "what if's." The daily interaction on this site helps me realize I'm not the only one- everyone has "been here & done that" & began at the same place. I appreciate all the support, advice & ideas anyone would to share as to what I can expect as I begin my journey.......who would have thought this 36 year old women - just can't wait to become a "loser".....everyone wish me luck!!! :bounce:

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::Lori::    0

::Lori::
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We're neighbors! I'm in Maryland, and was banded on the 9th of October. Best of luck on your journey. This could be the best decision you've ever made! -s-

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musicalmomma    1

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Hey there TeTe! I was born and raised in New Castle County. What part of DE are you in?

Congratz on getting the band...it's been a real life saver for me :(

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TeTe2    0

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Hey there musical momma! I am currently in Bear but I was born & raised in Dover - ya know one of those "slower lower - below the canal Delawareans" LOL

Did you have your surgery done here?

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musicalmomma    1

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Hey there musical momma! I am currently in Bear but I was born & raised in Dover - ya know one of those "slower lower - below the canal Delawareans" LOL

Did you have your surgery done here?

My husband and I were banded in Wisconsin. We moved here two years ago. I still miss DE tho. My whole family is still there. Are you having your surgery done at Christiana?

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TeTe2    0

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I am getting my surgery done @ St. Francis. I am a self pay & it's $7k cheaper there than Christiana. So St Francis it is. Most of my family is still in Dover, 2 of my brothers moved to NC. I have never lived anywhere else - I think Delaware will always be home, but I do love NewOrleans, I think I could live there. Maybe?

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