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7 mos post op, divorced and 90 lbs gone ( pics)



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7 months! Wow! You look so gorgeous and young! I'm 38 and also 5'7, I hope I look even half as good as you when I get close to my goal weight! My goal personal weight is 150-155. I have about 100 to lose to get there and I should be able to finally schedule my surgery next month. Enjoy the single life, I find it is so much more peaceful and happier than being in a bad relationship. You are doing & looking so fabulous! [emoji254][emoji177]


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You are hot! You did the right thing re the divorce. It feels good to me to not have someone treating me badly in my home too! I can only wish for the success you've had.

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49 minutes ago, GotProlactinoma said:

You are hot! You did the right thing re the divorce. It feels good to me to not have someone treating me badly in my home too! I can only wish for the success you've had.

Thank u so much ... I pray for your success to exceed mine. You will do great and respect for yourself feels so much better than anything else in this world. Take care of you first.

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2 hours ago, Malina said:

You look fantastic!!!!

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Thank you!!!!

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2 hours ago, ElysiaDee said:

7 months! Wow! You look so gorgeous and young! I'm 38 and also 5'7, I hope I look even half as good as you when I get close to my goal weight! My goal personal weight is 150-155. I have about 100 to lose to get there and I should be able to finally schedule my surgery next month. Enjoy the single life, I find it is so much more peaceful and happier than being in a bad relationship. You are doing & looking so fabulous!

Thank you so much..., I feel really good inside and out. My life does have a newfound peace to it and I am happy for that. I pray for a safe and successful surgery for you. Stay focused and do the right thing. You will do great as well. This was a hard journey but def worth the ride.

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1 hour ago, lornasaurusleeve said:

You look amazing and sound so much happier than you were before! So happy for you!

Thank you so much.., u have been following me for a while and I thank you for that. I am happier in my spirit. Not just for the physical transformation but the mental 360 as well.

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2 hours ago, Newme17 said:

Hey hey hey HOT MAMA!!! You look FABULOUS and HEALTHY too. Great job!!!

You're free from pain, both the marriage and the previous weight. May God bless you overtime hon!!! Why? Because He loves you; that's all. Lol.

I'm very happy for this new life you have. Enjoy it hon and be blessed. 😊

Hi Seeetie and thank you!!!! God has seen me thru this trivial journey and has never let me down. I trust and lean on him for everything. I owe him everything. I am loving my new life and so happy that I was finally brave enough to leave and mean it.

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I'll be getting divorced soon as well. Mine IS because of the surgery. I had an ultimatum. He said if I did the surgery he would divorce me. My gastric bypass was June 16th! Soooo...there ya go!
I have a long journey ahead of me, but I've already disowned 52 pounds from my body, and loads of weight from stress! I feel so very much better!

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You're rockin' the new you❣️. Fabulous and beautiful. Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than confidence and a sincere smile[emoji106][emoji92][emoji298]️[emoji322][emoji177]


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15 hours ago, Dknal2 said:

It feels awesome... I am 3 lbs from my goal weight of 150 lbs n I am so pleased with how this turned out ,.. only complication from surgery was a divorce ,lol. Thank you hun for encouraging words and I wish you the best inyour journey as well .

Thank You. I'm about 20 pounds from my goal of 180, I'm 5'10", but I keep stalling the last month. I was stuck at 207lbs for a month, dropped 7 pounds in two weeks and now I'm stalled at 200 for over a week. I know it will pass but being so close to goal and stalling is frustrating. Still 101 pounds in a year, 71 since surgery, not to shabby :)

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15 hours ago, Dknal2 said:

It feels awesome... I am 3 lbs from my goal weight of 150 lbs n I am so pleased with how this turned out ,.. only complication from surgery was a divorce ,lol. Thank you hun for encouraging words and I wish you the best inyour journey as well .

Thank You. I'm about 20 pounds from my goal of 180, I'm 5'10", but I keep stalling the last month. I was stuck at 207lbs for a month, dropped 7 pounds in two weeks and now I'm stalled at 200 for over a week. I know it will pass but being so close to goal and stalling is frustrating. Still 101 pounds in a year, 71 since surgery, not to shabby :)

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15 hours ago, Dknal2 said:

It feels awesome... I am 3 lbs from my goal weight of 150 lbs n I am so pleased with how this turned out ,.. only complication from surgery was a divorce ,lol. Thank you hun for encouraging words and I wish you the best inyour journey as well .

Thank You. I'm about 20 pounds from my goal of 180, I'm 5'10", but I keep stalling the last month. I was stuck at 207lbs for a month, dropped 7 pounds in two weeks and now I'm stalled at 200 for over a week. I know it will pass but being so close to goal and stalling is frustrating. Still 101 pounds in a year, 71 since surgery, not to shabby :)

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6 hours ago, losing2live4Him said:

I'll be getting divorced soon as well. Mine IS because of the surgery. I had an ultimatum. He said if I did the surgery he would divorce me. My gastric bypass was June 16th! Soooo...there ya go!
I have a long journey ahead of me, but I've already disowned 52 pounds from my body, and loads of weight from stress! I feel so very much better!

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I'm sorry you are going thru this turmoil. I know the stress alone is a killer but stay focused, eat and don't skip meals, exercise and take your Vitamins. You will do awesome. N who needs him anyway.... telling you if you choose life he's gone, well guess what , boy bye✌🏽.

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