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Hello everyone.

I'm scheduled to have my gastric sleeve surgery on December 14.

I know I'm definitely going to need some support, someone to talk to who can relate to the day to day challenges of the post-op lifestyle.

If there is anyone who wants to be a mentor or buddy please let me know.

I'm currently 443 lbs and I know it's a long road to reach my goal weight, but with the assistance of the sleeve and the support of understanding people, I'm sure I can do it.:-D

HW:660

CW:443

GW:???

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I added you to my friends list. I was sleeved 10/26. Not long enough to be a mentor, but happy to be an open ear!

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I'll add you I'm new too! Welcome

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I added you to my friends list. I was sleeved 10/26. Not long enough to be a mentor, but happy to be an open ear!

Thanks for responding Chrmow. I'm very happy to have you as a buddy and sympathetic ear!

Quick question, how is your weightloss progressing?

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I'll add you I'm new too! Welcome

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Thank you! You're awesome!

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

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I lost 19 pre surgery, 11 more in the liquid phase, and 20 since surgery.

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I lost 19 pre surgery, 11 more in the liquid phase, and 20 since surgery.

Wow, I just saw your photos, and you look AMAZING! Your hard work and sacrifice is really paying off. You are beautiful. Great job!!!

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

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Hi there. Welcome to the sleeved world. From the stats you listed it looks like you are already doing great on the pre-op side so I am sure your gonna do great once you have surgery. I was sleeved 9/28/15 and have lost 167.8 pounds since surgery and 224.8 pounds overall. I am happy to answer any questions you have or try to help you along the way.

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I lost 19 pre surgery, 11 more in the liquid phase, and 20 since surgery.

Wow, I just saw your photos, and you look AMAZING! Your hard work and sacrifice is really paying off. You are beautiful. Great job!!!

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

Super sweet of you! One day at a time.

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I would like to be a buddy, I don't have my surgery until 12/12/16, but I'm ready to start making friends. BTW how do you add someone as a friend on this site

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I would like to be a buddy, I don't have my surgery until 12/12/16, but I'm ready to start making friends. BTW how do you add someone as a friend on this site

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Hey Lisa! I would love for us to be buddies.

To add someone as a friend I believe you have to use the actual Bariatricpal website instead of the app. Via the website click on a member's name to reach their profile page and then you will see the option to add the member as a friend.

Good luck with your surgery on the 12, mine is scheduled for December 14 and yesterday my surgeon's office called me to ask if I would like to move up my surgery date to December 6, due to a cancellation. I have been debating the pros and cons all night. I think I'm probably going to stick with the date of the 14th, to give myself more time to prepare, and to gather the supplies I will need for after the surgery. I apologize for rambling on and on. I'm just thinking out loud to try and make up my mind, and I'm nervous as hell about the surgery. Lol.

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I'm nervous too, I know I need it but you hear so many horror stories on these sites. I've heard lots of success stories as well though. I think sticking to your original date is probably a smart move. We'll be fine. Have you started your pre-op diet? I start mine on Monday.

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I'm nervous too, I know I need it but you hear so many horror stories on these sites. I've heard lots of success stories as well though. I think sticking to your original date is probably a smart move. We'll be fine. Have you started your pre-op diet? I start mine on Monday.

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My surgeon told me I didn't need a pre-op diet because I had lost another 20 lbs since I saw him 4 weeks ago. I simply have to do "liquids only" the day before, and don't eat or drink after midnight the night before.

I have to be at the hospital at noon, and my surgery is scheduled for 2:30 pm. I was told the surgery takes 1 hour.

I have to stay overnight and go home the next day. I'm a little nervous because I was also told that I would need to take a medication for blood clots as a precaution.

My nervousness comes from the fact that I will have to administer the medication via injection in my stomach twice a day, and I'm not especially keen on giving myself shots.

However, because I once had a blood clot situation in the past, I know how dangerous that situation can be.

I'm sure we'll both be fine, just gotta relax and take things day by day, right..?

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

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I know what you mean on the shots, I am a diabetic and I had a really hard time giving myself shots at first. My best advice for that is don't think about it and just do it. I would sit there for like 45 minutes trying to psych myself up, and in the end I still had to give myself the shot, so just do it.

My surgery is out patient and I'm a little nervous about not staying at least one night.

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