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I saw my Family doc yesterday. It was a great appointment. He is behind my decision 100%! E is very supportive and very interested in giving me the support I need.

I originally had it in my head that I wanted to have this surgery as quickly as possible. But after lots of research and thoughts and prayers I want to do this the right way. I feel that the program my surgeon and my insurance have is a good program and is going to help me be successful in the long term so that I don't gain back what I loose a few years down the road.

I am excited to go down this road to improving not only my physical health but my mental Heath also.

I have already started a list of " acheavments" that I want over this adventure. My husband and I are big gamers and he is helping me come up with acheavments and rewards that are not food related.

I have also been thinking of ways to beat the mindless eating and emotional eating. Any one have any suggestions for me? I emotional eat A LOT!

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It's cool that your family doctor is so supportive. Out of curiosity is he younger? I have found that older doctors have a more primitive view of bariatrics.

I am also an emotional eater (yes men do that too!) the only advice I can offer is try and be as active as you can. The more time I spend alone on the couch the more likely I am to fall back into the cycle of depression and binge eating.

Anyway I wish you the best of luck on your journey!

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My doc is around 40. So not really young but not really old ether. If I come to him with research and I am ready to talk about things he is more likely to do what I want than if I come to home with no info. I had found some new studies that he had not seen and he will bring his own info also. We both make each other work towards an agreement and I love it because I learn and he is willing to learn also.

What kinds of things do you do to stay active?

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Walking/hiking mostly. I also coach flag football which gets me out of the house a couple of nights a week. Just go outside and wander around, look for little projects around the house. Where I'm from we call that "piddling"

Also, 40 isn't even close to old. :P

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