Dating

[lovingdavid 119]

Just wondering how long after surgery did you start dating? Pretty curious how many others are single and ready to start dating? I am a little over a year and would like to start dating again. Been single over a year. I was in a relationship for about 8 yrs but things did not work out. I wouldn't mind finding someone that will accept me and my son.

[bellabloom 2,467]

I started dating about six months after. It was hard. I'm still dating and afraid of taking my clothes off because dressed I look perfect but my body is pretty flawed. Just have to find the right person I guess.

I always think I have to be perfect.

Be careful dating after surgery. It's easy to get in over your head because so much has changed.

[tacocat 48]

I've dated all through the process. I saw no reason to stop! I see myself as quite a catch and if someone doesn't see that through my fat, they're probably not worth my time.

I think one key point is to gain the confidence....,it's a very attractive trait

[joatsaint 2,814]

I had my dating profile online waaaayyyyy before surgery.

And kept it up.

I didn't really meet anyone in person for 2 years post-op.

I did send and receive many emails to prospective dates.

None of them worked out long term.

But I did use that time as "practice" on how to meet and talk to people.

[lovingdavid 119]

Thank you all for the comments. I guess we just have to take one day at a time. It's always good to read others experiences.