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I'm starting to feel very alone in all of this. My sleeve is scheduled for may 13th and I just need someone to talk to. Let's support each other!

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I'm starting to feel very alone in all of this. My sleeve is scheduled for may 13th and I just need someone to talk to. Let's support each other!

I know that feeling all too well. . . Let's support eachother email me humblestar25@gmail.com let's start from there

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Hello Steph, I too feel kind of alone, except for my dog and a few friends it's me, myself and I.....scheduled in two days so I'll be back on this forum asap. Stay Strong

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My ops 14th May. I went to a support group in Edinburgh last night and finally decided on the sleeve. The folks there were a fantastic help, a mix of bypass and sleevers and all really down to earth which helped heaps. Im glad the choice is made - that was a nightmare! Starting the preop diet on sat. I'd really love to have a sleeve buddy or two to get through this with!

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My procedure is tomorrow morning and I am both anxious and happy at the same time. I live in Florida and it's not known for exceptional medical care, but I willing to take the chance..talk to you soon. Take Care

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I start my preop diet may 8 and def it's going to be Wonderfull experience Can't wait to start loosing these nasty lbs I live in Mississippi and you.

I've just started mine on Thursday and lost 4lbs so far. Fingers crossed it keeps going that way. It does feel good to be loosing for a change! I'm in Scotland, near Edinburgh. What kind of preop diet are you on?

My procedure is tomorrow morning and I am both anxious and happy at the same time. I live in Florida and it's not known for exceptional medical care, but I willing to take the chance..talk to you soon. Take Care

Hope everything went well and you're doing ok? Speedy recovery!

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Surgery My 15th, message me if you like. Best of luck to you!!

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Hello Steph, I too feel kind of alone, except for my dog and a few friends it's me, myself and I.....scheduled in two days so I'll be back on this forum asap. Stay Strong

How are you doing?? I'm getting very very nervous!!

I'm starting to feel very alone in all of this. My sleeve is scheduled for may 13th and I just need someone to talk to. Let's support each other!

I know that feeling all too well. . . Let's support eachother email me humblestar25@gmail.com let's start from there

Hey, I emailed you! Let me know if you get it!

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Hello Steph, I too feel kind of alone, except for my dog and a few friends it's me, myself and I.....scheduled in two days so I'll be back on this forum asap. Stay Strong

How are you doing?? I'm getting very very nervous!!

I'm starting to feel very alone in all of this. My sleeve is scheduled for may 13th and I just need someone to talk to. Let's support each other!

I know that feeling all too well. . . Let's support eachother email me humblestar25@gmail.com let's start from there
Hey, I emailed you! Let me know if you get it!

Yes I got it. . I replied with my info

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