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@@kimpossible67 - I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

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Kim I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. My mom passed away 4 years ago due to heart issues, also. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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@@kimpossible67 My deepest condolences. I lost my mom after a very brief illness back in 2003. There are no words to describe what you are feeling, but just know I know how you feel. Do not stress anything but feel your feelings and go through your emotions, it is best. The rest can wait and will all be there when you are ready to tackle it again.

@kindle- I want to offer my condolences to you too. I am so sorry for your loss, and for whatever your dear friend suffered through to lead him to such a desperate place. Again, as I advised above, feel your feelings then deal with the rest. ( food & eating issues)

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i am so sorry for the loss of your mum. that is the hardest thing ever. my heart breaks for you. i'll be thinking of you in the days to come.

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I do not know if you're a lady of faith or not, but I will tell you this; you are now one day closer to being with your mama again. ALWAYS look forward, ALWAYS...........bless you, my dear.....

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Everyone get a pass at horrible times like that but just know when you have to jump back on the wagon soon. I'm sorry for both of you and send healing thoughts to you both.

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@@kimpossible67 I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you.

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Kim,

I am really so sorry for your loss. I'm hugging you virtually. (((((YOU)))))

Ann

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I do not know if you're a lady of faith or not, but I will tell you this; you are now one day closer to being with your mama again. ALWAYS look forward, ALWAYS...........bless you, my dear.....

I am a women of Faith. I accept God's decision. Thank you.

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@@kimpossible67 I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom to cancer a couple of years ago, and it is so hard. I still miss her every day, but it does get easier and much less painful. Be kind to yourself. You are in my prayers.

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kimpossible and Kindle I am sorry for both of your losses.

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Im sorry for your loss. Prayers for strenghth at this hard time.

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@@kimpossible67 I am so sad to hear of your Mom's passing. As others have said, there are no words....just know you are in my thoughts and prayers for strength and peace. I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

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