So I am licensed by the Texas Lottery commision and I am a Bingo Caller! I love my job, I give away lots of money and make people happy! So I deal with A Lot of people, including a lot of overweight people. So I have this women that plays bingo, and has for years! Always feels compelled to say to me, " you're getting sooo FAT!" The first time she said it to me I was crushed and didn't know what to say. She has said this sort of thing a few times over the years and I am just floored! I just go and cry. So last night at work was by a different lady that has also been a long time customer, comes up to me and says, " YOURE GETTIN SO FAT, YOURE GETTIN UGLY!" I mean what do you say to that! Ok so let me stop and tell you the real shocker of it all, my coworkers are ALL WAYYY bigger then me, one weighs about 400 lbs, another one is about 350 lbs, my boss is about 200lbs, another one is about 200lbs. So! Tell me, why me? Why am I the one that gets all of the flack. I just went to the office and cried, I just can't wait to get my surgery done and start loosing and having the last laugh!

I am always shocked by this crap...but seriously, you can't make that shitt up. I don't know what is wrong with some people!

Clearly, it's their issue and not yours. I'm reasonably certain there is nothing you can say to stop them.

Perhaps you are dealing with some mentally ill people. Or older people with levels of dementia. I was once showing my 3.5 lb Yorkie and this $itch asked me why do the biggest people want the smallest dogs. She went on with how it looks so ridiculous huge people who could squish those tiny puppy's. I froze. I thought how embarrassing for anyone to have to be related to her.

OMG I can't believe someone would say that, countrygrrl, that is just so stupid!! People are stupid. I mean REALLY!

I don't understand how come people can be so hurtful. I had someone say to me once "your kids are so thin they must not get that from you" I went to my moms and cried.

Tell that customer, You didn't know big and ugly is the new thing. But me I would say your husband don't complain

Some people are just not happy! Therefore, they don't want anyone to be happy! They are just sad, sad people and won't be happy till everyone around them is miserable! Try not to take what they say to heart. That's what they want; don't give them the satisfaction! I think I would say, smiling, something like, "Rude much?". But that's me and I wouldn't put up with it...for long!!!

Babydoll, there is living proof we always have way more horse's asses than horses to go around. The lowest common denominator of the stupid, the coarse, the rude and the ugly is in the unprovoked mean that they think passes for "witty" and throw at others. She obviously isn't smart enough or nice enough to even stand next to you. Ignore her.

You can loose weight, you can't fix stupid

You can loose weight, you can't fix stupid

I saw a bumper sticker last week that said "Stupid Should Hurt". I just now decided I agree with it....lol

Tell them to fcuk off before you become unfriendly. That's one of my fav lines. OR my other, "WHY are you still talking to me."

Her meaness has nothing to do with you. You should tell her to her face that she's being rude and unkind, and tell her calmly. That's the only way to shut her up. Put her in her place and STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. It FEELS GOOD!! I can tell you're a sweetheart, and people will try to pull that stuff to make themselves feel powerful. It's pretty common. Just tell her to back off. Grrrrr! Makes me mad!

@@Hetera Thank you, I will be seeing her Wednesday night and I'm curious what she will say to me.. So I'm ready!!!!!!! Hope I have the guts to say what I want, I will try.

People are just so damn rude. Just keep your head high. They have no class

Is she handicapped in some way? That sounds like very odd things to say, to anyone.

Is she handicapped in some way? That sounds like very odd things to say, to anyone.