Someone noticed my weight loss at work and i felt humiliated

[Miss Mac 6,261]

I have always loved the circus!

[LilMissDiva Irene 3,281]

Ugh not me. I hate clowns.

Edited June 5, 2014 by LilmissDiva Irene

[CowgirlJane 14,259]

I didn't have time to read the replies, so sorry if this is a duplicate, but i am suggesting that you need to tackle this issue head on.

I too was pretty high BMI - I lost over 160# since the sleeve and over 180# from my lifetime high. I am completely transformed. I have worked for the same company for over 20 years and have traveled alot for work so know people from around the globe who maybe only see me every year or two. That means that even 2.5 years post op I am dealing with the "OMG - I didn't recognize you!" And from the guys... well... a few "you are hot!".

It is alot to take in. Mixed emotions. IT can be overwhelming and I didn't want it to turn my head or make me cocky either. So, I really advise that you map out a plan in your mind how you will deal with this as time goes on.

Nobody noticed a thing until I lost about 50.

Once I lost about 100 or so everybody thought I looked amazing.

Once I lost about 140-150 I started getting a few jealous remarks

Now, I am the skinny chick/skinny bitch which i take a total compliment and completely embrace it.

I am not embarrassed, I am THRILLED but it definately took some moxie to face all this!