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OH MY GOSH.... I am having a really tough time today my surgery is in 1.5 days and I swear I am loosing it I want to eat so bad from nerves.. And I had a break down on my hubby now all I want to do is sit and hold my little boys and just cry my eyes out

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I've had a really rough day too. When people talk about their holiday plans I become resentful that I can't make plans because of recovery time... Mad at myself for being fat and in this position.

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I've had a really rough day too. When people talk about their holiday plans I become resentful that I can't make plans because of recovery time... Mad at myself for being fat and in this position.

Oh I sooo know what you mean I feel so bad that I am putting my boys and husband through this I wish i wasnt fat :(

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Yes, inconveniencing my family and also spending all our money. I'm paying out of pocket and we are scraping by for Christmas as a result. Oh well, I know it'll be worth it for them to have a more active, longer living mother and wife. Just wish it hadn't come to this.

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OH MY GOSH.... I am having a really tough time today my surgery is in 1.5 days and I swear I am loosing it I want to eat so bad from nerves.. And I had a break down on my hubby now all I want to do is sit and hold my little boys and just cry my eyes out

I know what u mean... I've kept myself busy since 6am today by getting my hair braided which took 6 hours. Then I got rid of all the clothes in my closet & rearranged my bedroom. I brought a few new outfits in smaller sizes!

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I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly $4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now.

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No problem it didn't take to long to fix... Sorry I didn't respond sooner I am with my 5 year old little boy at the emergency room he has bronchitis and asthma and his fever spiked to 103

Omg! I sure hope he is better now:)

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I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly 4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now.

I can't even imagine how your feeling! Is it something to do with insurance or the hospital? My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly 4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now.

Oh my.... Sorry to hear of this.... Why would they wait so long to tell you this like everyone just has lots of money at their disposal. Do you have any access checks from a credit card you can use, or can you get a credit line increase on a credit card, apply for a loan 1st thing Monday morning. I know you're devastated. I would stay on the liquids just incase you can pull it off. Wish you much luck!

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I asked the same thing why so they did not talk to me sooner. We started this process in March. Applied for medical loan on Friday and stayed on liquid diet. We will see on Monday.

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I can't even imagine how your feeling! Is it something to do with insurance or the hospital? My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Thank you need them right now! Hospital thing unfortunately! We will see Monday.

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I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly $4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now.

I can't believe they waited all this time to tell you that? Wish I had some ready answers, but I don't. Insurance will not cover it?

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I asked the same thing why so they did not talk to me sooner. We started this process in March. Applied for medical loan on Friday and stayed on liquid diet. We will see on Monday.

Fingers crossed & sending prayers your way

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