Ok so people are starting to ask me what have I dont to lose weight there is 5 people who have said the same thing to me " oh I know 2 or 3 people who have done the samething and with in 3 years they have gained it all back " why are people sooooooooooooo negative . I am trying my best to do what I am supost to and that is my biggest fear is that I will gain the weight back i dont ever want to be 289lbs again

That's because some people are complete douche bags !!! I have no time for people like that !

sorry you are having to hear this. People can be so thoughtless.

People are just mean but i try to stay postive i hate when someone says something negative about the sergery they dont know what we go threw or the thing that makes me soooooooooooooooo mad is when someone says easy way out WHAT are they nuts this is by far not the easy way out of anything people are dumb lol

Ok so people are starting to ask me what have I dont to lose weight there is 5 people who have said the same thing to me " oh I know 2 or 3 people who have done the samething and with in 3 years they have gained it all back " why are people sooooooooooooo negative . I am trying my best to do what I am supost to and that is my biggest fear is that I will gain the weight back i dont ever want to be 289lbs again

Well that's where you say, " obviously those people didn't do what they were supposed to, the surgery is just a tool... You have to put in a lot of work for this to be successful. Sounds like they gave up!" and be so confident where they feel like a dummy for saying that to you. People are idiots!

Some people do gain the weight back and when I her people say that to me I just think to myself well that's not me so what someone else did doesn't affect how I lose weight and keep it off, people don't understand exactly what a douchy thing that is to say to people. I just consider them ignorant roll my eyes and move on or if I'm in a good mood try and educate them. As my mom has always said to me and I say to my kids don't let the turkeys get ya down.

People can be mean and stupid. Develop the look. The look that says you're full of it but I'm not going there!

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Ignorant people abound!!! In one ear and out the other... they are not worth your time or energy

That's when your response should be....There are lots of people who don't gain it back as well. I'm going to be one of the ones who does what I'm suppose to do and keep it off. Thank you for your support

We can all avoid regaining by eating healthy & exercising. I will never be 211