Im just at the beginning stages and my husband says he doesnt care what i do as long as it doesnt affext me. I told him what sipport meant and he said hes not babinf me and go to mental healgh for supporr emotionally any suggestions

It won't be easy, but hopefully we can all support and help each other. My husband eats more, smokes more and goes back and forth on his helpfulness since my surgery. I feel like I'm on a path towards health and happiness and my husband is going in the opposite direction.

I feel the same way. I'm desperately trying to get healthy and am hoping to have surgery soon (finishing up appointments this month and then submitting for insurance). My husband says that he wants to lose weight, but yet still demands I get him fast food (even though we have real, home cooked meals at the house) and will not work out with me. I understand that it's really hard to change your lifestyle and lose weight, but I feel like he's just given up on life. He has become so stubborn, and unambitious. I'm just at my wit's end and don't know what to do.

We all have been there before. I didn't get to 300lbs by working out and eating healthy he will have his Epiphany one day. Be supportive and make suggestions but remember how you felt when people would tell you how to get healthy when you weren't ready

He went witg me tonight to a support meeting

He went witg me tonight to a support meeting

That's great! Maybe give him a chance and things will get better. It's a step in the right direction!

He went witg me tonight to a support meeting

All I can say is I'm jealous but extremely happy for you.