From my recent trip to TJ, I wanted to warn woman of the danger that lurks there. No, it's not gangs or drug cartels or murderers ... It's handsome young drs who can sense your vulnerability and low self esteem from a mile away. I'm not sure if the rules are different in Mexico or sleeping with patients is just "frowned upon" but either way after the excitement wears off for him, instead of feeling happy & confident in your smaller body, you're left feeling used and foolish. I'm not saying dont let them in your hotel room to check your wounds and remove your staples, but just know when they stay till 1am they know where the back stairs are to sneak out so the hotel staff dont become suspicious ... Not going to name names, but I'm curios if anyone else has had the same aftercare experience as me .. Adios

Laura-Ven' date=' we validate the OP by ousting the doctor, THAT'S how you support an accusation that many of you know to be true.

What about those of us who still have to go to Mexico for our surgery? How do you feel about the added anxiety that is piled on to us now not knowing if this is the doctor you all are talking about?

I need the name. This is not fair to those of us still going...[/quote']

U dont need to know if you don't plan on sleeping w any doctors!

U dont need to know if you don't plan on sleeping w any doctors!

That is SO not cool to say. That would imply that a victim is such by choice only.

Surprising coming from you.....

You're not in danger - he's a "good dr" .... I think it's up to his boss to decide if he continues with that company - this may be enough to scare him to stop doing it

Oh I will be telling trust me.. My concern is that of the op right now. this is a hard thing to tell and I can understand why she would be scared of people not believing her! Can you imagine having a dr do this to you.. Then a bunch of woman calling you a liar OR. Saying you go girl he's cute!

You're right. When I first saw this post I was like "WTH"? But now I believe it. The OP took on a new identity so she is protected. Please tell others. I went to Mexico and I would have wanted to know this info prior to going. Even though this would not have happened to me because I'm older and not pretty like the OP, I would NEVER support a Dr. who did this to ANY woman!!

You're not in danger - he's a "good dr" .... I think it's up to his boss to decide if he continues with that company - this may be enough to scare him to stop doing it

Now I am beginning to think you are just a woman scorned.

My point is to go in with your eyes open - in general life! I had a FABULOUS surgery experience and loved my surgeon coordinators and nurses ... I wouldn't put people at risk - you are in good hands ... This is for young woman who could easily be used like I was

Laura-Ven' date=' we validate the OP by ousting the doctor, THAT'S how you support an accusation that many of you know to be true.

What about those of us who still have to go to Mexico for our surgery? How do you feel about the added anxiety that is piled on to us now not knowing if this is the doctor you all are talking about?

I need the name. This is not fair to those of us still going...[/quote']

I understand that...

And I think that it's an unfortunate situation all around because he is a good DR.

But he is not a good person. But it's hard to separate the two when he did this not as a man approaching a woman but as dr dealing with a patient..

The OP is absolutely beautiful and I can see why he was attracted to her as well as probably many other men there!

You're not in danger - he's a "good dr" .... I think it's up to his boss to decide if he continues with that company - this may be enough to scare him to stop doing it

I disagree.. Sorry but you are not the only one.

And even if you were it doesn't make it right.

I disagree.. Sorry but you are not the only one.

And even if you were it doesn't make it right.

Really? There have been others??

Now I am beginning to think you are just a woman scorned.

I have blatantly said I take responsibility for my part in this - it's how it all unfolded and how quickly he moved to the next girl whilst his GF is none the wiser what's going on - and if I was scorned I would be posting his name ... I JUST WANT TO WARN WOMAN NOT TO FALL FOR IT ... I don't like that he will get away w tho behaviour

Dr. Luna

No songs because this is not very funny.

Dr. Luna

No songs because this is not very funny.

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I think this deserves an official investigation. For someone to come here, make accusations and claims she is a victim, but then DENY others protection by hiding his identity is wrong and selfish.

I am going with my CHILD to have surgery. I would like to think they are safe there while I am recovering.

SHAME on YOU for coming here with this story and then PROTECTING the perpetrator.

Now I am beginning to think you are just a woman scorned.

And it's this kind of statement I worried about...

It is NOT HER FAULT.