From my recent trip to TJ, I wanted to warn woman of the danger that lurks there. No, it's not gangs or drug cartels or murderers ... It's handsome young drs who can sense your vulnerability and low self esteem from a mile away. I'm not sure if the rules are different in Mexico or sleeping with patients is just "frowned upon" but either way after the excitement wears off for him, instead of feeling happy & confident in your smaller body, you're left feeling used and foolish. I'm not saying dont let them in your hotel room to check your wounds and remove your staples, but just know when they stay till 1am they know where the back stairs are to sneak out so the hotel staff dont become suspicious ... Not going to name names, but I'm curios if anyone else has had the same aftercare experience as me .. Adios

Lol thanks my friend .. I feel he thinks he's invincible and can do what he wants to whomever he wants ... He has a sense of power over us - we trust him and he flat out abused it ... Love u K x

Well...take his power away by putting his ass on blast. Who is he?

Now that's what I call a happy ending Yes, there are some really nice looking men in those hospitals..but crap, I wouldn't even have sex with my hubby then...let alone a stranger.

The Yellow Rose of....

Wait. Wrong hint.

That's where I got the idea of a song!!

Now that's what I call a happy ending Yes' date=' there are some really nice looking men in those hospitals..but crap, I wouldn't even have sex with my hubby then...let alone a stranger.[/quote']

When u don't feel very good about yourself and have a handsome man telling u things u want to hear you get caught up in it all .... The sex was not the problem here people ... If anything it was probably good for circulation or something lol ... Also I had a very easy recovery

I have to tell you that I know who this is (I knew by the very first post) And know the doctor in question... I think that you are a beautiful woman

(Pre surgery also) I can see how he was attracted to you.. But he was in the position of authority and it is wrong in my book. Not criminal but morally wrong on his part.

By the way please do not PM me asking who it is... I won't tell.

Me too...

I need to say something... This doctor is well known and is held in high esteem here.

I would hate for anyone to bash this young woman for coming forward. I have seen it happen before when someone has a MINOR complaint about Mexico surgeons.

Mind you she is not the only one this guy has done it to..

That's just why I'm not naming the dr ... I knew what I was getting myself into postin this - I don't want him to keep getting away with it ... He will be reading this - he loves reading about himself on here - well maybe not this post lol

Hey, doc, looks like you've about "operated" yourself out of a career. You should have stayed awake during ethics training and been more in control of your surgical tool.

Well, I think ALL of you are contributing to his delinquency by protecting his identity. That is totally not cool in my book.

In fact, shame on those of you who will protect this man!

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Well' date=' I think ALL of you are contributing to his delinquency by protecting his identity. That is totally not cool in my book.

In fact, shame on those of you who will protect this man![/quote']

Oh I will be telling trust me.. My concern is that of the op right now. this is a hard thing to tell and I can understand why she would be scared of people not believing her! Can you imagine having a dr do this to you.. Then a bunch of woman calling you a liar OR saying "you go girl he's cute!"

Well' date=' I think ALL of you are contributing to his delinquency by protecting his identity. That is totally not cool in my book.

In fact, shame on those of you who will protect this man![/quote']

I think his company should deal with it ... I just want girls to not be fooled by a wolf in Sheeps clothing! He is not the surgeon - he is a good dr and if he was putting people in danger of course I would say !! All he "hurt" was my feelings and I don't want another stupid young girl to be his next victim if I can help it! We are trusting them with our body's ... He should not abuse that!

And yes the "you go girl" comments were rather tacky ... If I wanted praise for landing a hot dr I'd of used my original profile photo & name!

And yes the "you go girl" comments were rather tacky ... If I wanted praise for landing a hot dr I'd of used my original profile photo & name!

It's kind of a hero worship thing..

Stuff like this happens in the USA too.. It's not a Mexico thing it's a shitty human being thing.

I'm not judging you' date=' you are an adult and free to do the nasty with anyone you choose. That said, I'm sure there are very few people that are interested in having sex 4 days post op, much less in a foreign country with a total stranger.

Please, expose the cad that seduced you! If this happened, it is unethical and should be known. Otherwise, I must say it smells like bull doodles to me.[/quote']

Bull doodles!!! Lmao!!!!

Laura-Ven, we validate the OP by ousting the doctor, THAT'S how you support an accusation that many of you know to be true.

What about those of us who still have to go to Mexico for our surgery? How do you feel about the added anxiety that is piled on to us now not knowing if this is the doctor you all are talking about?

I need the name. This is not fair to those of us still going...