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Beware! woman traveling to TJ

From my recent trip to TJ, I wanted to warn woman of the danger that lurks there. No, it's not gangs or drug cartels or murderers ... It's handsome young drs who can sense your vulnerability and low self esteem from a mile away. I'm not sure if the rules are different in Mexico or sleeping with patients is just "frowned upon" but either way after the excitement wears off for him, instead of feeling happy & confident in your smaller body, you're left feeling used and foolish. I'm not saying dont let them in your hotel room to check your wounds and remove your staples, but just know when they stay till 1am they know where the back stairs are to sneak out so the hotel staff dont become suspicious ... Not going to name names, but I'm curios if anyone else has had the same aftercare experience as me .. Adios

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It's a lifetime movie waiting to happen!! Lol

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"happy and confident in your smaller body"

Uh......post op smaller body? Sleeving or liposuction?

25 lbs down - was low BMI to start ... gastic sleeve in May

So I can get my sleeve AND have sex with a young' date=' hot doctor?! Lol[/quote']

Lolol. Ummm!! Lol

Anybody have any cocoa butter? I am trying to hold on to the credibility here but I'm being thinned out badly, want to avoid stretch marks. :blink:

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So you went to TJ, had surgery and four days later had consensual sex with your doctor? And you are upset at who?

ahh myself... and wanting to warn others not to be so foolish. he had all the lines and i fell hook line and sinker for them. looking back I was in a very vulnerable state and feel i was taken advantage of. other young single girls reading this might realise that hes using this to his advantge too.... and then i found out he has a long term girlfriend to top it off

You are dealing with Latinos. Hot blooded. Sexy. Sensual.

Are you trying to tell me this was not in your post op expectations? :wub:

Come on. It is part of the package. For ALL of us.

Eet ees why vee go to Mexico (said in my best Latino accent).

ahh myself... and wanting to warn others not to be so foolish. he had all the lines and i fell hook line and sinker for them. looking back I was in a very vulnerable state and feel i was taken advantage of. other young single girls reading this might realise that hes using this to his advantge too.... and then i found out he has a long term girlfriend to top it off

I'm not judging you, you are an adult and free to do the nasty with anyone you choose. That said, I'm sure there are very few people that are interested in having sex 4 days post op, much less in a foreign country with a total stranger.

Please, expose the cad that seduced you! If this happened, it is unethical and should be known. Otherwise, I must say it smells like bull doodles to me.

Told ya they'd call ya a troll! :P

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What possible benefit can I get f5rom "making up" this story. I havnt used my real name on here, I havnt put up a photo, what possible benefit would i get. I do feel under different curcumstances I would have made better decisions, but at the time I told things I hadnt heard in a while and fell for his charms. Turns out THAT was bull doodles.

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Ok!

I'm stealing bull doodles now lol

I was worried my sister who is coming with me wouldn't have anything to do. I will let her know it's like spring break in Cancun.

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