From my recent trip to TJ, I wanted to warn woman of the danger that lurks there. No, it's not gangs or drug cartels or murderers ... It's handsome young drs who can sense your vulnerability and low self esteem from a mile away. I'm not sure if the rules are different in Mexico or sleeping with patients is just "frowned upon" but either way after the excitement wears off for him, instead of feeling happy & confident in your smaller body, you're left feeling used and foolish. I'm not saying dont let them in your hotel room to check your wounds and remove your staples, but just know when they stay till 1am they know where the back stairs are to sneak out so the hotel staff dont become suspicious ... Not going to name names, but I'm curios if anyone else has had the same aftercare experience as me .. Adios

I guess what gets confusing is when a man acts like they want to be with you sending mixed signals. If its just a fling then act like its just a fling. Don't bring flowers and romance into it if you just want a one nighter

Hes in a different country wouldnt you assume it is just a fling...or the fact that it wasnt a date it was just in the hotel room. I know if I slept with someone within 4 days of knowing them it would be a fling

Edit: I didn't see the one you posted about it going on for weeks...I assumed you met him and first spoke to him that week

It went on for 4/5 weeks ... At first ya - I was thinking one night fling cool ... But then he starting with all the lines ... Skype etc ... Then he found his next victim ... And has turned into a cold harted a hole ... I was just a bit of fun that walked in the door - not professional I don't think ... I am taking responsibly for it too - just don't want other woman to get hurt

Oh ok nvmd then...u should report him

No with my fiance but I'm guessing a dr knows how to be gentle lol

I had sex with my husband 5 days later and after 20 years of experience, he's got it figured out, too.

Next time I'm going to TJ for a bit o' strange!

Oh ok nvmd then...u should report him

And it didn't start off in the hotel room .. We went on a "date" ... I'm more trying to help other woman then ruin things for him by doing this ... I'm sure karma will sort him out

I wasn't going to post because people could put two and two together and figure out who you're posting about, but they probably will anyway! I don't know that it's a horrible thing though honestly, as it doesn't seem to be the first or last time he's done this with a patient. I was there and her story is actually true. INSANE, but true (I was in Mexico at the same time and have seen the "date night" pictures, and have seen emails). Like I've told you privately though, I think his company would like to know this is going on and if you really want to prevent other women from believing that he wants a relationship with them, that's the way to stop it. This may get his attention, but that's not what you say you want. If you really want to keep women from feeling used like this, his company needs to know. If they haven't figured it out already from this thread!

Medical Tourism already has an unfair stigma attached to it. His behavior won't make that any better!!

Lol thanks my friend .. I feel he thinks he's invincible and can do what he wants to whomever he wants ... He has a sense of power over us - we trust him and he flat out abused it ... Love u K x

If this is Gods honest truth... This is unethical in any country and since you're warning mostly Americans it's only right to expose his identity and let people decide on their own. Who gives a rats ass about whether he'll get mad...

That's just why I'm not naming the dr ... I knew what I was getting myself into postin this - I don't want him to keep getting away with it ... He will be reading this - he loves reading about himself on here - well maybe not this post lol

As long as no one names him, he will keep getting away with it. Do you know his name?

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Lol yes ... I did know him that well to catch his name. He will read this and hopefully stop his **** .. I might email the company and they can decide what to do...

If this is Gods honest truth... This is unethical in any country and since you're warning mostly Americans it's only right to expose his identity and let people decide on their own. Who gives a rats ass about whether he'll get mad...

It's true... And I'm leaning the same way only because things can only be changed and improved if there are complaints about it.

She is not the first for this Dr. And I'm sure she won't be the last...

Oh oh oh I have a great hint!! In the form of a song for the doctors name!!!

I wasn't going to post because people could put two and two together and figure out who you're posting about, but they probably will anyway! I don't know that it's a horrible thing though honestly, as it doesn't seem to be the first or last time he's done this with a patient. I was there and her story is actually true. INSANE, but true (I was in Mexico at the same time and have seen the "date night" pictures, and have seen emails). Like I've told you privately though, I think his company would like to know this is going on and if you really want to prevent other women from believing that he wants a relationship with them, that's the way to stop it. This may get his attention, but that's not what you say you want. If you really want to keep women from feeling used like this, his company needs to know. If they haven't figured it out already from this thread!

Medical tourism already has an unfair stigma attached to it. His behavior won't make that any better!!

This.

Oh oh oh I have a great hint!! In the form of a song for the doctors name!!!

The Yellow Rose of....

Wait. Wrong hint.

This is a help and support forum and it's a disservice not to post an unethical surgeon.. Regardless of what country the slime ball is practicing in.

The Yellow Rose of....

Wait. Wrong hint.

Lol..