From my recent trip to TJ, I wanted to warn woman of the danger that lurks there. No, it's not gangs or drug cartels or murderers ... It's handsome young drs who can sense your vulnerability and low self esteem from a mile away. I'm not sure if the rules are different in Mexico or sleeping with patients is just "frowned upon" but either way after the excitement wears off for him, instead of feeling happy & confident in your smaller body, you're left feeling used and foolish. I'm not saying dont let them in your hotel room to check your wounds and remove your staples, but just know when they stay till 1am they know where the back stairs are to sneak out so the hotel staff dont become suspicious ... Not going to name names, but I'm curios if anyone else has had the same aftercare experience as me .. Adios

Plus aftercare takes place in a locked hotel room .....no thanks!

I didn't bother reading the entire thread but what I gather is you were incapable of keeping your legs closed and are pissed off you got played by some guy. Little advice, don't sleep with guys you hardly know and then get upset when he doesn't stick around.

It would be one thing to come on here and tell people to watch out if this guy forced you to have sex with him, but he didn't. I'm sure this isn't the first time some guy has done this and probably won't be the last if you so freely give it up. You willingly slept with him, he turned out to be the typical jerkoff guy who just wants sex from girls. Move along and keep your cooter in your pants until you are in a committed relationship or don't get pissed when all a guy wants from you is sex.

Really?

Ok, so chances are the majority of us aren't going to be hit upon by Casanova drs, but you know what? I find it unsettling that this don Juan wanna be is assisting a great surgeon. Obviously, he thinks he's Gods gift to women and will continue to prey on the insecurities of vulnerable women. He needs to be called out. We owe him nothing. We're here to support each other and that means even in a sisterhood/friendship manner... And let each other know about things of this matter.

I hope this post has gotten the attention of all concerned and the only blame is on Dr Roamin' Romeo Luna

I didn't bother reading the entire thread but what I gather is you were incapable of keeping your legs closed and are pissed off you got played by some guy. Little advice' date=' don't sleep with guys you hardly know and then get upset when he doesn't stick around.

It would be one thing to come on here and tell people to watch out if this guy forced you to have sex with him, but he didn't. I'm sure this isn't the first time some guy has done this and probably won't be the last if you so freely give it up. You willingly slept with him, he turned out to be the typical jerkoff guy who just wants sex from girls. Move along and keep your cooter in your pants until you are in a committed relationship or don't get pissed when all a guy wants from you is sex.[/quote']

Omigosh! This post is so mean! Read the whole thread please before you judge someone.

Roserie

Very uncalled for and crude.

I read enough to know she had consensual sex with another adult 4 days after meeting him. Had this been some random guy off the street she wouldn't say anything. I would feel sorry for her if this guy forced her to do it.

He did what a lot of a*****e men do, made her feel good, got her to sleep with him and moved on. This is exactly why you don't sleep with men until you know them and are in a relationship.

If you don't care then let it be and don't say mean things.. Sheesh!

He did what a lot of a*****e men do, made her feel good, got her to sleep with him and moved on. This is exactly why you don't sleep with men until you know them and are in a relationship.

For shitsakes.. Have a little compassion? Not everyone is as experienced with ass hole men as you seem to be.

He did what a lot of a*****e men do' date=' made her feel good, got her to sleep with him and moved on. This is exactly why you don't sleep with men until you know them and are in a relationship.[/quote']

In the context of a doctor/patient relationship, this is called sexual harassment whether it is consensual or not.

Had this been some random guy off the street she wouldn't say anything.

Exactly! IT WASN'T SOME RAMDOM GUY... It was her attending physician. There's a huge difference.

For shitsakes.. Have a little compassion? Not everyone is as experienced with ass hole men as you seem to be.

I have compassion for women that are taken advantage of and forced into situations. Being that I was sexually assaulted when I was younger by someone who I trusted and made me believe it was my fault and that I wasn't allowed to tell anyone. For 2yrs I was held in fear of outing him. It wasn't until I was 25 that I told anyone. But willing doing something with someone that quickly after meeting someone is the fault of the parties involved.

I have compassion for women that are taken advantage of and forced into situations. Being that I was sexually assaulted when I was younger by someone who I trusted and made me believe it was my fault and that I wasn't allowed to tell anyone. For 2yrs I was held in fer of outing him. It wasn't until I was 25 that I told anyone. But willing doing something with someone that quickly after meeting someone is the fault of the parties involved.

I'm sorry for what happened to you. Your situation sounds like rape. She didn't say she was raped. Her situation was sexual harassment.

Hmmmm, me thinks we need a little less judgement and a lot more compassion. Just sayin'

The cutie pie doc better avoid prison. Those monster bubbas will give him a graduate course in what it feels like to be taken advantage of.