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thank you so much for your kind words. you are right' date=' maybe i should try lane bryant 16's huh or avenue. i just cant swallow i only lost 1 pants size. not losing over 60lbs because every 10lbs is a pants size. again thank you[/quote']

I've always found that in plus sizes each size is 20lbs. Also big difference for me between a 18W & 18 regular. Once I get out of plus sizes, each 10 lbs drops to a new size. I can't wait to get out of plus sizes !!!

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i was sleeved 9/12/12 ive lost 47lbs since surgery' date=' and 16lbs before surgery, here are my stats

september i lost 10lbs

november i losts 16lbs

december i lost 9lbs

january so far first week 4lbs

why am i not happy? i will tell you why because i went to ross today to see what size pants i wear i just knew i was a 16 or 18

so i grabbed a bunch of jeans in that range and do you know the 18 i couldnt fit i wonder how big my ass really was, but my 22/24 jeans are way to big for me i was so sad because i knew i could at least get in an 18. this battle is something else man. talk to me fellow sleevers.[/quote']

Hey for some reason I'm seeing the same thing, I did go down two sizes but it was weird I lost 50 lbs and thought like you ill be smaller and I wasn't I was do upset but then this last 13 lbs took a ton of inches off! I think we loose it so fast it take a a min for our bodies to catch up bc I remember in the past the rule of thumb being for every 20lbs was a size right!? Doesn't seem to be the case here huh? Keep your head high you have kicked some A**!!!! Lol xoxoxox

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Ross clothes are usually irregular! !! So it's not your ass its the store.

I'm sorry I'm

With her! It's not your ass its the store!!!!!! Best quote of 2013! Lol

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tisa all i can say is wow to that, but im going to wait a few more weeks and go to another store. thank you so much for your input

lakobe you are too funny girl. i feel so much better to know its not my ass its the store lol

lander thanks so much

ginger you are right

brandy i guess so girl

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Until I get to the size I want to be I buy my jeans at thrift store/garage sales. I have 5 pairs of size 14 jeans and 3 pairs of 16's. Three pairs of the 14's fit (others too tight) and 1 pair of the 16 aren't too loose (rest too loose). It's the brand of jean I promise!

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I am so glad I came across this thread. I was about to shop for some smaller clothes just knowing that in 20 lbs or so I'll be in a size 14/16 but ummm I'll wait and just dig out the few things that I have that are in smaller sizes that hopefully I can fit...

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Ross clothes are usually irregular! !! So it's not your ass its the store.

Lmbo

Sunshine

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I am 168 and wear size 15/16. Additionally I find that jeans that are labeled curvy fit me perfect. I know Aeropostale sells curvy only online and I think they go to a 17/18. I also got some curvy jeans at Kohls. Try them jeans that have curvy on their label and u will see they fit so much better.

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That just goes to show you that brands are different when it comes to sizes. I'm 5'6 weigh 188 and have 3 size 14's that fit great...but I have 2 other 14's that don't fit...all 5 are different brands.

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I am so glad I came across this thread. I was about to shop for some smaller clothes just knowing that in 20 lbs or so I'll be in a size 14/16 but ummm I'll wait and just dig out the few things that I have that are in smaller sizes that hopefully I can fit...

I agree. ...I'm in the same range but I have a lot of clothes that were very tight....si

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I read that the bigger a person is, the longer it takes to drop sizes Nd he smaller you get, the quicker the sizes drop.

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i have given up on pants and just wear skirts. but i have the same issue with shirts... i have lost 55 pounds and dont think my size has gone down overall.. because every thing is so differant. one think i have noticed... this morning when i got dressed i had to toss out my favorite undies... they FELL off my ass when i stood up.... sometimes its the little things:)

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Oh also!!! Are you working out? It makes all the difference in the world.

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I tried on seriously-60 pairs of jeans on New Year's Day. God love my boyfriend. I was able to get a 14 on in 2 brands- yet some brands the 18 wouldn't go up my thighs. Ugh. So frustrating. Try a brand of jeans called source of wisdom- they are a super stretchy material and you should be able to wear them a bit longer than some other jeans.

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