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Do you think he is completely aware of his actions and how you interpret them? This whole weight loss thing, how we see ourselves and how others see us is a pretty awesome thing. This is going to make contact with the very root of your relationship with food and your spouse. There may be some deeper things going on here that they may not even be aware of.

Before you write him off as an insensitive a$$, perhaps there may be something else going on here with him and his own demons.

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Phil, I am taking Chantix and it has worked quite well smoked for 25 years.. I haven't had any outlandish dreams or homicidal or suicidal thoughts so I am doing well.

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Phil, I am taking Chantix and it has worked quite well smoked for 25 years.. I haven't had any outlandish dreams or homicidal or suicidal thoughts so I am doing well.

good for u. I tried chantix but it wasn't for me. I can't believe that I quit but its getting easier every day. Will be off the elec. Cig. Soon.....phil

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When I first started dieting I had this same problem as I live with my mom. She would and still does buy chips, ice cream, and other junk food. The two things I had to learn were A) I am NOT a human garbage disposal, and B) Just because my mom bought it and brought it home does not mean I have to eat it. So since January I have been working on that. Yes it is difficult at times, but like everyone else has said, you are doing this for you. I wish you luck.

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I am a Mom also but because I love my child and don't want him living like I did (overweight and depressed), we don't allow him to eat junk food on a daily basis. Of course, we understand a cookie or ice cream every now and then won't hurt him, he gets it in moderation.

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