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we have our own little group here who play up to people, then mock them behind their backs and manipulate and 'try' to control threads to suit their fancy, then put on the smiley face and say 'who me?':angel: as if nothing ever happened. Talking about losing faith in people or being in a toxic environment. Wow..

Woah!

Is this really happening? I have really put myself out there in the last few weeks, and if people here are indeed mocking others, I can say that I will no longer feel like this is a safe place to share my progress.

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No offense Fitter, But i believe that this is an open Forum and if I want to read something it is none of anyones business. I am not out here causing trouble. I am just in the side lines. So please i have not offended you in any way so please dont associate MY name in any of this Shit.......

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Fitter, Vickie1177, GreatDame, susan4794, PamRN, the best me, Kathy S, Luna, debi717, idahobeauty, BakoGal, leatha_g

Here's the list of people who are tired of seeing this. If you're tired of it, why are you reading it?

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Lisa,

This is fascinating. Almost like a psychology experiment. I don't believe in all my years on various message boards that I have actually seen someone so self destructive as yourself. You are like a car accident. I don't want to look but I just can't help myself. So...as long as nobody is physically hurt, I'm going to continue to watch you implode. Its better than cable. It's just a bummer I am only in my 4th week so I can't eat popcorn while I watch.

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I am so lost... you guys keep on saying Lisa is banned, why not ban Susan....

Isn't Lisa still here? She is not banned at all. I wouldn't use that as an excuse anymore. I know DeLarla's account was suspended, but Lisa is obviously alive, LOUDER than ever, and well.

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I couldnt of said it better HeatherGurl

I am so lost... you guys keep on saying Lisa is banned, why not ban Susan....

Isn't Lisa still here? She is not banned at all. I wouldn't use that as an excuse anymore. I know DeLarla's account was suspended, but Lisa is obviously alive, LOUDER than ever, and well.

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Delarla was one of Lisa's multiple personalities along with Lisa Bones. She is now posting as Fitter. From what I can figure out without a program is that Delarla and Lisa Bones have been banned. Fitter is still with us, as you can obviously see.

It does seem rather disingenuous of the moderators to ban two personalities when there seems to be few more of the same human being that keep popping up. One would think you would ban the person not simply the email name, no?

Anyway-back to the show without the use of a program. Seems that the

"Fitlarlabonesa" (think Bennifer) has some primal need to be right. Not just right but fire and brimstone, hard heiney, no prisoners taken, the taxman cometh, your period is late, public laundry washing, root canal without novacaine, fire without seeing the whites of their eyes, going straight to hades in a handbasket right.

About what exactly I am not sure, I didn't pay extra for the big program with the pictures. Something about other members stalking her and (the best part) about an old moth eaten LBT scandel that nobody cares about anymore that happened when Jimmy Carter was in office.

It matters not to "Fitlarlabonesa" that everyone involved in the (insert Jaws theme) has tried to stop the insanity. It is not enough to say stop and it never will be enough until somebody confesses!!!! Yes, (stroking my glued on curled moustache and cackling with evil glee) someone must confess!!!

So...if you're still with me without benefit of a program, "Fitlarlabonesa" will continue to self destruct in public. Because a) nobody is confessing to anything and :D I can't wait to see the next personality pop up.

I can only pray the next one calls itself "Hydra".

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Delarla was one of Lisa's multiple personalities along with Lisa Bones. She is now posting as Fitter. From what I can figure out without a program is that Delarla and Lisa Bones have been banned. Fitter is still with us, as you can obviously see.

It does seem rather disingenuous of the moderators to ban two personalities when there seems to be few more of the same human being that keep popping up. One would think you would ban the person not simply the email name, no?

Anyway-back to the show without the use of a program. Seems that the

"Fitlarlabonesa" (think Bennifer) has some primal need to be right. Not just right but fire and brimstone, hard heiney, no prisoners taken, the taxman cometh, your period is late, public laundry washing, root canal without novacaine, fire without seeing the whites of their eyes, going straight to hades in a handbasket right.

About what exactly I am not sure, I didn't pay extra for the big program with the pictures. Something about other members stalking her and (the best part) about an old moth eaten LBT scandel that nobody cares about anymore that happened when Jimmy Carter was in office.

It matters not to "Fitlarlabonesa" that everyone involved in the (insert Jaws theme) has tried to stop the insanity. It is not enough to say stop and it never will be enough until somebody confesses!!!! Yes, (stroking my glued on curled moustache and cackling with evil glee) someone must confess!!!

So...if you're still with me without benefit of a program, "Fitlarlabonesa" will continue to self destruct in public. Because a) nobody is confessing to anything and :D I can't wait to see the next personality pop up.

I can only pray the next one calls itself "Hydra".

Ok, I have remained silent until now. I have chosen not to get involved or "choose sides" (really, who cares?), but DAMN this was funny.

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aaamom==I'm with you! No sides--haven't been here long enough to even know for sure what happened--but it is just like watching the soaps. They are stupid, sleezy, repetitive, and totally addictive--I love the drama!

I only wish I could eat popcorn now--that would make my day!:biggrin1:

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