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Soooo what is the rule for sex after the sleeve? I'm just trying to prepare myself...... Also what birth control does work during this time?

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The more weight you lose the more fertile you get. I had to wait about two weeks and kind of cross my arms across my middle for another two weeks so that there was no shaking or movement. I have seen this question before, and guys seem to either heal faster (or care less). ;)

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I only waited a week. Just take it slow and no swinging from the rafters:-)

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The more weight you lose the more fertile you get. I had to wait about two weeks and kind of cross my arms across my middle for another two weeks so that there was no shaking or movement. I have seen this question before, and guys seem to either heal faster (or care less). ;)

Haha @ care less...that's for sure... we could be on fire and still care less.

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I asked my CNP and she said I can have sex whenever I feel up to it, just take it easy. I thought it was funny since I can't swim or work out for two weeks but I can do it!!!

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I had my surgery 3 months ago but my sex drive went out the window idk what is it but is driving me and my hubby crazy to the point that he thinks I dont love him and I might be cheating most of the im feeling week and sick I wish he could understand and see how much I love him do you have some ideas on how to boost up my sex drive.

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That's weird because so many women get super horney because all the hormones are released from the fat cells.

Are you not feeling well because you aren't able to eat enough? You need to eat small meals all day long then. Please feel free to message me because at 3 months, things should start becoming much easier.

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Hmmm.... maybe I should sign my wife up for surgery lol...@ super thorny..

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Two more days till surgery and I'm thinking I should get it in before my sleeve lol

Best pre-surgery planning I have heard of! :D:lol:

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Two more days till surgery and I'm thinking I should get it in before my sleeve lol

Yep sure wish I had lol...might be a week till I'm back in business. Lol.

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I had sex the day I came home from the hospital. Everything was fine.

Really? Wow.

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Two more days till surgery and I'm thinking I should get it in before my sleeve lol

I've had a food funeral but didn't think about having a sex funeral. LBVS!

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