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My Response ~ Stop the whining *****



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I can understand your concern and your position considering you just had lunch with *****. If you were to sit down with me for 3 hrs or less, trust me, it would be a total different story. I am not full of hate or anger. Just the opposite. I've never been happier in my life. I'm not just saying that....I had a conversation with my mom last week on the very subject. She said how happy she was to hear that. If you lived in my home or where I currently live, you would only hear good things. I carry myself with dignity and character. My only judge is the Lord. So far, I have not felt the need to ask His forgiveness for anything I've done. I do feel the need to pray for someone like *****. You too will understand one day and I pray you are not hurt in the process. She is only using the "Christian" thing as a judgment to criticize and it doesn't phase me. I stand firm in who I am and what I believe. I don't need to stand with Dody, Lisa, or anyone else. I stand on my own 2 feet and only answer to my DH and my Lord. I'm pretty sure they feel the same way, but let them speak for themselves.

I do take a stand where I feel harm is being done and if you care to take the time, go back and read some threads....that is if they're not deleted by now. She is known to do that after she changes her mind.

I'm not asking you to take any sides. I have friends on here that are friends with ***** and myself. Just ask Dody. When she was friends with *****, I never once tried to change that friendship in any way.

However, I will take a stand when I feel it is necessary and am not now and never will be intimidated by ANYONE. Even if they question if I'm a Christian, that is their issue not mine. My posts speak for themselves and so do hers. Did you read anything nasty in my posts? I think not. Read hers.

I appreciate your compassion and I know your being sincere. To be honest, I've had some some good laughs and I'm sorry she feels hurt in the process. She should really stay away from threads that bother her. She had no business posting or bringing up what she did on the DeLarla thread which is what started all this drama. She can't dish it out then cry foul. I for one, will call her bluff. Like I said before, you've got to take a stand for what you feel is right. That is exactly what I have done and will continue to do.

BTW, she was reprimanded for getting nasty. She's said so herself. That is a prime example of how someone can carry themselves without getting nasty like she does. Maybe it's the wine based on her post saying she had a lot to drink and felt bad for getting nasty.

Please do me a favor and plead for ***** to stay out of threads where she KNOWS she doesn't like the people and/or topic. She'll be a lot better off. People grew weary of this stuff from her a long time ago. I hope you continue to be a good friend to her and protect yourself in the process (not only saying that b/c of her, others as well). The only one you can count on is the Lord and He never has and never will fail us.

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I have no idea whats going on :)

But I'm not a troll so I'm saying Ello! I was here and I've read this post :)

Hugs,

Nana~

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Uggh, this sickens me to no end.

Still finger pointing.

Still condensending.

Still vicious.

Still displaying Un-Christian-like behavior.

Stop hiding behind the Lord. You are completely opposite of who you say you are. You are a trouble maker and you love re-hashing old shit. Just stop already with this nonsense. Get over yourself and over Susan.

You really should look at yourself.

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I love you. You are the best friend on this board anyone could ever hope to have. Those that don't agree are free to speak up, but you did absolutely no bashing of any kind that I saw. You are most definitely not a trouble maker and if ******** haden't sent you a nasty PM then everything would be cool. I know you stand on your own 2 feet, because I didn't even know there was anything going on between you two. My problems are my own and I shall deal with them also. The thought that she involved both DeLarla and me makes me angry and one of us was not here to defend herself...well at the time anyway.....but here's hoping she shows up.

Telly I'm surprised at you to say the least. I considered you a friend.

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Sanitized bashing is STILL bashing.

Now go wipe your conscience.

Find me a post where 3 Loves bashes anyone at any time. She has nothing to wipe from her conscience, but I've seen lots of not so nice posts from you also.....so don't be so quick to defend or defame someone else.

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Then still consider me a friend. This has nothing to do with you Dody. I am responding to this thread as I have been a victim of her shenanigans for a few days. She knows what she's been doing.

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Really, Telly. Is this about the troll pics? Come on now....I thought we were having fun and laughing. At least I was having fun. Sorry if you thought otherwise. You posted the first pic and I wanted in on the fun. Help me understand if you really feel that way.

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Really, Telly. Is this about the troll pics? Come on now....I thought we were having fun and laughing. At least I was having fun. Sorry if you thought otherwise. You posted the first pic and I wanted in on the fun. Help me understand if you really feel that way.

No the troll pic was hilarious. I found that to be funny and seeing my face on that thing was scary...lol.

However, you have been just egging things on. Must I quote all of your crap for the past few days? I think not. Everyone who has been around your posts, know what you were doing and so do you. Let's not play ignorant here.

I don't dislike you, I find you have humor and that makes you likeable in my eyes, but I've seen your work lately and it's not a good example of what you claim to be.. a disciple of the Lord.

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Then still consider me a friend. This has nothing to do with you Dody. I am responding to this thread as I have been a victim of her shenanigans for a few days. She knows what she's been doing.

Telly I have no idea what the problem is here with you and 3 Loves. I just know I value my friendship with you both and don't know why this can't come to an end for both of you. I'm sure whatever 3 Loves did was done in jest and not to hurt anyone. She just isn't that type of person.

Take care my friend.

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Telly ~ I think your making more out of this than what it is. See my response that started this thread and that's what I have to say on the past few days. As far as I know, you were not involved in any of it. Did I miss something with you?

Glad you liked the troll thing b/c I had some good laughs that night.

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BTW, Dody....please don't concern yourself. You will never have to choose between friends as far as I'm concerned.....I'm pretty sure Telly feels the same way although I'm not meaning to speak for her. We are all friends and family with the spats and all.

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What the hell is wrong with you guys?

Women wonder why men refer to them as drama queens.

Grow up already.

:heh:

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What the hell is wrong with you guys?

Women wonder why men refer to them as drama queens.

Grow up already.

:heh:

:clap2: :funnypost:

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Ok, someone's getting spanked here

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